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Is she a monster or do I have a little chance ?

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Originally posted by mokko
I'm guessing that's about 5'7" and 175lbs? Is that right?

I'm 5;6" and 100lbs so it's quite a bit bigger than me. Then again it all depends on where and how a person wears it. if her boobs are that huge then that could account for the majority of the weight.

If you don't get turned on by fat bellies then there's nop oint in persuing a relationship with ...[text shortened]... It isn't fair to either party to settle for anything les than what our hearts desire.
Yes exactly. WOW Mokko understands me (I first thought these canadian emancipation fighter would blast me into the abyss. WOW

So problem really is. No matter how good her character might be I still sh@g her body. So if she´s a real Iceberg I frankly spoken don´t give a sh..t about character.

And no I am not only interested in sex. But sex is one of the main foundations of as relations ship. Otherwise I will keep up the imense intense relationsship to my right hand.

IM IN EXCRUCIATING PAIN MAN !

Keep it up. So will I. If all goes well I will see her on Sunday (she is hardly studying during her job so she doesnt have much time for the next two weeks. AND I PRAY TO THE LORD AND ALL GODS AND DEMONS THAT SHE IS NO FATTY. I am afraid to wait for her and have this Jurassic Parc Earthshaking experience.

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Originally posted by c99ux
Mokko, from what you tell us, your back's bigger than your front, right...
No..my back's pretty boney as well. I think RC has me beat in the boob department from what I saw. 😞

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Originally posted by AussieG
So what are you after? Her body or personality? Or both? 179cms and 79 kilos sounds pretty good.. maybe a little extra on her but you wouldn't think too much. Gee, you wouldn't worry. Extra height always means a few extra kilos.

However, if you get on well and she looks good, you can hardly go wrong! I met my girlfriend on the internet too and I'v ...[text shortened]... ice character and nice face. ..and if it doesn't work out, you haven't lost anything!
Same here, I met my gf on the net and she is amazing! She has helped me so much with my illness, and she is attractive, caring, funny, and an all round good person, no monster at all! Go for it!
Also AussieG, I play your gf alot on here and don't worry, I don't think she goes in the forums 😉

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Originally posted by Rochade
Hi fellas,

meet this girl on the internet and we talk for hours and hours on the phone and I saw photos but not her profile or her whole body.

80 c as bra size is very much ok. Nice character and a beautiful face.
Problem is: I cannot mount a monster. Yes I for myself don´t look like Brad Pitt but if you spank a womens butt in the morning it should ...[text shortened]... own moon or is she about o.k. ?

Please help me before I go to the toilet and open my veins !
Mate, wake up and smell the roses!
You must be young right? No man over 25 acts like that. You are still in your "I'll bonk anything as long as she's skinny" phase. Enjoy it while it lasts kameraden, cos it does'nt last.
The girl is into you and you are not into her so be upfront and honest.
You never know, she may only want sex!

🙄

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it's more about self-esteem than weight. most of us are raised up to think we should be after some certain type of women. slim, blond, big breasts come to mind. soon you'll realize hair color has nothing to do with how hot someone is. then, you'll find out some girls with tiny breast are more sexy than some of their big breasted counterparts. then you'll think "I could never be with a woman considerably taller than myself" and run right into a tall goddess who pushes all the right buttons. somewhere down the line, you'll meet your first seriously overweighted girl, who just happens to be incredibly cute and incredible person, and you'll realize none of the beliefs you had about your taste are real.

some leggy blondes are hot, not all of them. some big breasted women are hot, not all of them. and yes, some overweighted girls are sexy, but not all of them.

same applies to any subcultural or personality differences. be a hippy, and you'll fall in love with a businessman. be a prude, and you'll end up with a pervert. be an atheist, and you'll fall for a religious babe. - people are mostly attractive when they are following their own way, not when they try to comply to the expectations of others. self-esteem is sexy.

so, go meet the girl. you might fancy her or you might not. it can't be forced either way, so why worry about it?

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Originally posted by Rochade
I am 26 years old and I hate it when you feel the bones of a lady. I come from hamburg and we have the reeperbahn so i fxked enough. But is it so hard to understand that a women must sexually attract me and if she has a belly or is a fatty or or or I don´t give a shit about her character as I simply can´t be with a women without wanting her.

What you are ...[text shortened]... ry my very best to keep me attractive for my partner.

I would never shag a fat couch potato.
May you always get what you wish.
But dont be a mensch with the girls feelings. Its not worth it.

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Originally posted by expressiveoutburst

Also AussieG, I play your gf alot on here and don't worry, I don't think she goes in the forums 😉
Oh she goes in the forums! Well... more to the point, checks out my profile and reads my forum posts - even though I don't make too many. She also checks to see if I have moved recently.. Often, I make a move and then walk away and she thinks I'm there and boy, I get into trouble! 😛

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Originally posted by lordhighgus
Mate, wake up and smell the roses!
You must be young right? No man over 25 acts like that. You are still in your "I'll bonk anything as long as she's skinny" phase. Enjoy it while it lasts kameraden, cos it does'nt last.
The girl is into you and you are not into her so be upfront and honest.
You never know, she may only want sex!

🙄
Originally posted by lordhighgus
Mate, wake up and smell the roses!
You must be young right? No man over 25 acts like that. You are still in your "I'll bonk anything as long as she's skinny" phase.



that's exactly what I was thinking. I just went the long-winded way about it. 🙂 it's not about romantic perception of life, it's just the way it goes. just like guys stop eating candy after 20, and red wine starts to taste better the older you get.

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Originally posted by wormwood
Originally posted by lordhighgus
[b]Mate, wake up and smell the roses!
You must be young right? No man over 25 acts like that. You are still in your "I'll bonk anything as long as she's skinny" phase.



that's exactly what I was thinking. I just went the long-winded way about it. 🙂 it's not about romantic perception of life, it's just the ...[text shortened]... e guys stop eating candy after 20, and red wine starts to taste better the older you get.[/b]
Well, I'm gonna bonk anything for 6 more years.

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Originally posted by Rochade
I am 26 years old and I hate it when you feel the bones of a lady. I come from hamburg and we have the reeperbahn so i fxked enough. But is it so hard to understand that a women must sexually attract me and if she has a belly or is a fatty or or or I don´t give a shit about her character as I simply can´t be with a women without wanting her.

What you are ...[text shortened]... ry my very best to keep me attractive for my partner.

I would never shag a fat couch potato.
Sorry Rochade- from those figures (and who's to say she's not subtracting the odd kilo), I'd say she's one big lady.

I'm a bloke, I'm 26 like yourself. I'm about 182cm I think, or 5'10'' and a bit, and I weigh about 79 kilos now... she's going to be either much bigger and stronger than you or much fatter than you. If that doesn't bother you, then go for it.

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Originally posted by AussieG
Oh she goes in the forums! Well... more to the point, checks out my profile and reads my forum posts - even though I don't make too many. She also checks to see if I have moved recently.. Often, I make a move and then walk away and she thinks I'm there and boy, I get into trouble! 😛
haha well I'm glad my gf doesn't like chess so she can't check up on me all the time! lol Your gf is cool though and we have nice chats during the games we play 🙂 You have a good one there!

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Originally posted by Derfel Cadarn
Well, I'm gonna bonk anything for 6 more years.
as you should. there will come a time when that's not gonna be enough for you, but it'll probably take some years still. refraining from it now would only make you regret later.

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Besides the fact that I look for something for the heart, too I will have to wait till Sunday to see.

So she is god for the heart but I still have to see if she is good for the tiger, too.

And I don´t play her. She is as nervous as I that she don´t like me as I that I don´t like her. If I don´t like her I will have a nice chat during our meal and will say at the end that we don´t fit (and think that she don´t fit into my flat) and I don´t want to see her again. She knows what I think and that´s it.

I need all a good heart thingy, character and a body whichs attracts me. If some guys here can imagine Jolie while shaging the white whale, that´s okay for you.

I won´t turn off the lights or cover her with the German flag to do it for my country. I want to be attracted.

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Originally posted by Derfel Cadarn
Well, I'm gonna bonk anything for 6 more years.
Whatever happened to saving yourself for the woman of your dreams. Giving her your wholesome self. Does it just not exist anymore?