Originally posted by NordlysTalking or writing?
I was speaking in general. Xe/xyr/xym are gender-neutral pronouns. Very handy, both when talking about an intersexed person and when talking in general.
Is there an “intersexed” person in this thread? If so, how exciting! As a “lipstick lesbian“, I should be delighted to have a game of chess with them… er… xyr.
There is, as you are well aware, no such thing as a gender-neutral pronoun in English; let’s not pretend otherwise. Please.
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Originally posted by MathurineMostly writing, but of course it can be used when talking, too. As far as I know, there is no intersexed person in this thread. As I said, I was speaking in general, not about a specific person, so neither "he" nor "she" would have worked well. I learned these pronouns on a mailing list the owner of which is intersexed. There are no official gender-neutral pronouns, and not all intersexed people use the same, but as these are the ones I learned first, I stick with them.
Talking or writing?
Is there an “intersexed” person in this thread? If so, how exciting! As a “lipstick lesbian“, I should be delighted to have a game of chess with them… er… [b]xyr.
There is, as you are well aware, no such thing as a gender-neutral pronoun in English; let’s not pretend otherwise. Please.
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Originally posted by NordlysIt's all just special pleading.
Mostly writing, but of course it can be used when talking, too. As far as I know, there is no intersexed person in this thread. As I said, I was speaking in general, not about a specific person, so neither "he" nor "she" would have worked well. I learned these pronouns on a mailing list the owner of which is intersexed. There are no official gender-neutral p ...[text shortened]... ntersexed people use the same, but as these are the ones I learned first, I stick with them.
You're a good linguist, Nordlys. Don't be swayed.
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Originally posted by Mathurine"it"
Talking or writing?
Is there an “intersexed” person in this thread? If so, how exciting! As a “lipstick lesbian“, I should be delighted to have a game of chess with them… er… [b]xyr.
There is, as you are well aware, no such thing as a gender-neutral pronoun in English; let’s not pretend otherwise. Please.
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