Originally posted by Pawn QweenI think that meeting online brings you to a level beyond the distractions of the physical. The insecurities and the needs we have can get in the way. You lay all that out online. I would prefer having my mind known beforehand and vice versa. It seems to work for others.
I don't see why not. People meet in all sorts of places. I think meeting men in pubs and clubs can be a bit dodgy, you don't know who they are, no different from the internet.
Originally posted by SunburntJust accept that you want me.
I think that meeting online brings you to a level beyond the distractions of the physical. The insecurities and the needs we have can get in the way. You lay all that out online. I would prefer having my mind known beforehand and vice versa. It seems to work for others.
Originally posted by Sunburntark and I have known each other for over two years now, meet several times a year, and have dated for over a year. I think one of the advantages to having a long distance relationship is that you form a very strong emotional connection before a physical one (although ark and I met before we'd started dating). You sort of make yourself more vunerable and honest when you're online.
Does anyone put stock in getting to know someone online for a long period of time and that that can be a real thing?
To trevor though: Don't worry, people aren't that different in person (having been to a meet up and met 6 players on their own). It might be awkward at first, but you become more comfortable with each other after the first few days. You just have to learn how to interact with each other. The more you visit, the more like herself she will be (afterall, she will be trying to impress you).
Originally posted by Bad wolfSo once you get married, you don't care what your wife does with whom because it's not wrong as long as you don't find out about it? Good to know...
Strictly speaking, if the husband doesn't find out anything about it, you can do anything, and technically you wouldn't have done anything wrong.