Originally posted by angie88Believe it or not i am a moral guy. I do look at it as though i am helping her. I would not expect a sexual relationship...just strictly business. With that being said although I am not dating or seeing anyone who is to say that i wont want to over the next 2-3 years arguably the best years. So I do have to weigh in on the equation what am I giving up and what is that worth. Will I be expected to support her with that money that will come into play. I agree that I should have more time but I think they are expecting a right now on the spot decision from me when I meet her next friday. And if we were so madly in love would I really need a prenup...would that go over well with the feds??? will we have to live together or just make planned public apperances with obvious public affection....
You asked for a woman's opinion? Since all Suzianne came forward with was a sarcastic remark, I'll take on the job if you don't mind 😉
Now first off, I have no idea about the price... been discussed enough, and I don't really care. I was gonna talk about my opinion on the issue.
I don't actually have any moral objections to what you propose. I'd say ...[text shortened]... you're not marrying her for love.
Well, that was my 2 cents... hope it helped some.
Angie
Thanks
Tom
Originally posted by tommybear
Believe it or not i am a moral guy.
Really? You are considering taking $30k from a Cambodian family, in exchange for doing their daughter a favor, and you think this is moral? Wow, I think I need to look up the definition of moral. Somehow, this doesn't sound moral to me. Do you know how difficult it is to come across $30k in Cambodia? That kind of cash there is probably as hard to come by as a million dollars is here in the US.
And if we were so madly in love would I really need a prenup...would that go over well with the feds??? will we have to live together or just make planned public apperances with obvious public affection....
I don't know just how grateful for her new life she'd have to be to fall in love with the guy who just milked her family out of their last dime as a favor to her. She may feel endebted to you for a while, but I don't imagine she'll love you.
If you are serious about wanting to protect your possessions after the deal is done, the best advice anyone can give you here is to consult a lawyer before you marry this girl. All anyone here can do is give you opinions and guesses as to what the consequences of your actions might be. When all is said and done, we have nothing to lose, but you do. If I tell you something that's wrong, and you get burned, you'll get an apology from me, and nothing more. This is probably more than anyone else here will give you.
About the feds, I don't think you have to worry about them. They won't be watching you like a hawk at all. First of all, you are not doing anything illegal. There are all sorts of reasons why people get married, and the feds don't watch every couple that has exchanged vows to make sure they really meant them. If I had to guess, I would say that you wouldn't even have to live together at all. If you just have your marriage license, you're married. If you stay married for two years, she's set. However, if you decide to date someone while you are married, that may carry some serious consequences, even if you have a prenup. That's just a guess though.
Originally posted by tommybearFirstly, you cannot do this as you are Belgian.
Any info or opinion anone has on this will be appreciated.
Secondly, I have to inform you that my immigration colleagues will be keeping a look out for your name in records.
Thirdly, all your fellow conspirators here are being looked at too.
Have a nice day.