Top 100 Traits... "

Originally posted by Tabitha Marshall
Probably to a certain extent but perhaps for lack of emotional memory.

.... along with physical and/or cognitive laziness?

Originally posted by Grampy Bobby
[b]Top 100 Traits of Personality-Disordered Individuals

"83. Self-Victimization - Self-Victimization or "playing the victim" is the act of casting oneself as a victim in order to control others by soliciting a sympathetic response from them or diverting their attention away from abusive behavior.

84. Sense of Entitlement - An unrealist ...[text shortened]... e coping strategies." (to be continued) http://outofthefog.net/CommonBehaviors/Top100Traits.html[/b]

I fixated on 91

Originally posted by Grampy Bobby
[b]Top 100 Traits of Personality-Disordered Individuals

"74. Raging, Violence and Impulsive Aggression - Explosive verbal, physical or emotional elevations of a dispute. Rages threaten the security or safety of another individual and violate their personal boundaries.

75. Riding the Emotional Elevator - Taking a fast track to different ...[text shortened]... raphic background."
(to be continued) http://outofthefog.net/CommonBehaviors/Top100Traits.html[/b]

hey Bob you missed out christian nutcase

Originally posted by redbarons
I fixated on 91

91. Stalking - Any pervasive and unwelcome pattern of pursuing contact with another individual.

Are you aware of the cause of this behavior which is frowned upon by RHP Terms of Service and Forum Guidelines?

Originally posted by redbarons
hey Bob you missed out christian nutcase

Home Page: Welcome to Out of the FOG!!

"Out of the FOG is an information site and support group offering help to family members and loved-ones of people who suffer from personality disorders.

Out of the FOG was written and developed by people who have experienced a relationship with a family member, spouse or partner who suffers from a Personality Disorder.

Personality Disorders are serious mental-health conditions which affect millions of people and are often misunderstood and undiagnosed.

Personality Disorders negatively affect the quality of life not only of the people who suffer from them, but also their family members, spouses, partners, friends, colleagues and acquaintances.

The emphasis of Out of the FOG is on describing Personality Disorders from a Non-Personality-Disordered individual’s point of view. In other words; what is it like to live with a person with NPD or BPD? Where can you find help when you have a parent with a Histrionic or Dependent Personality Disorder? How do you cope when confronted with the prospect of caring for someone with Obsessive-Compulsive or Avoidant Personality Disorder?

The descriptions of Personality Disorders given here are based on both the clinical criteria used for formal diagnosis, and on the experiences of people who have cared for someone who suffers from a Personality Disorder - what it feels like, what works and what doesn’t.

We often think of people in simple terms such as ‘good and bad’, ‘friends and enemies’, ‘loving and hateful’. Personality Disorders are not so simple. People who suffer from them may exhibit behaviors which are sometimes constructive and other times destructive. Over time, this can generate feelings of Fear, Obligation and Guilt (or FOG) in those who come into contact with them.

It is our goal to inform and support family members, spouses, partners, friends and caregivers as they try to work their way out of the confusion, out of the chaos and out of the FOG."

http://outofthefog.net/index.html (Page 2)

redbarrons, Bob didn't have a thing to do with the identification or listing of these Personality Disorders; he's here to learn.

Originally posted by Grampy Bobby
[b]91. Stalking - Any pervasive and unwelcome pattern of pursuing contact with another individual.

Are you aware of the cause of this behavior which is frowned upon by RHP Terms of Service and Forum Guidelines?[/b]

I meant stalking game(as in hunting I own a Lurcher Jack Russell 2 ferrets and an high powered air rifle shoot rabbits hares deer etc don't do it for food just like the killing)

Originally posted by redbarons
I meant stalking game(as in hunting I own a Lurcher Jack Russell 2 ferrets and an high powered air rifle shoot rabbits hares deer etc don't do it for food just like the killing)

Originally posted by redbarons
I fixated on 91

In context "91" hasn't a thing to with "stalking game(as in hunting I own a Lurcher Jack Russell 2 ferrets and an high powered air rifle shoot rabbits hares deer etc don't do it for food just like the killing)" or does it?

Originally posted by Grampy Bobby
Originally posted by redbarons
[b]I fixated on 91

In context "91" hasn't a thing to with "stalking game(as in hunting I own a Lurcher Jack Russell 2 ferrets and an high powered air rifle shoot rabbits hares deer etc don't do it for food just like the killing)" or does it?[/b]

ok Grampy time to fes up this is me 4/6/10/14/20/30/43/56/64/74/93/100

Originally posted by redbarons
ok Grampy time to fes up this is me 4/6/10/14/20/30/43/56/64/74/93/100

If this list has stimulated an awareness of unresolved issues, perhaps you should discuss them with your family doctor.

Originally posted by Grampy Bobby
If this list has stimulated an awareness of unresolved issues, perhaps you should discuss them with your family doctor.

I already did the psychopath test I passed with flying colours.

Originally posted by redbarons
I already did the psychopath test I passed with flying colours.

You and your family must have been pleased with these recent results. Was your self analysis above in jest?

Originally posted by Grampy Bobby
You and your family must have been pleased with these recent results.

I passed my empathy test also(CANT WATCH FILMS WITH ANIMALS THAT GET HURT)makes me cry

Originally posted by redbarons
I passed my empathy test also(CANT WATCH FILMS WITH ANIMALS THAT GET HURT)makes me cry

"drewnogal, I'm glad you seem to be familiar with the introduction and list of traits. Did you notice the author's disclaimer: "Please note: these descriptions are not intended for diagnosis."? Also the observation: "... that this list of traits seems so "normal" - more like traits of an unpleasant person than traits of a mentally ill person. This is no accident. Personality disordered people are normal people." This information caught my attention while searching for a diagnosis of the underlying causes of 'hatred' because of one family member and one close friend who have discussed these issues with me even though I had no frame of reference until now. My tentative conclusion is that each one of us have some areas of normality and abnormality in varying degrees. As a lay person, I offered the topic for general discussion only in the hope of learning more. If the thread has inadvertently become personalized for you or your family or anyone here, please accept my apology. Thanks. -Bob (Page 3)

Originally posted by Grampy Bobby
.... along with physical and/or cognitive laziness?

Yes, the lot in the same basket contributing to the repetition of mistakes.

P.S. Growing old is good in that sense, we become less stupid with ourselves. 🙂

“In science it often happens that scientists say, 'You know that's a really good argument; my position is mistaken,' and then they would actually change their minds and you never hear that old view from them again. They really do it. It doesn't happen as often as it should, because scientists are human and change is sometimes painful. But it happens every day. I cannot recall the last time something like that happened in politics or religion.”


Carl Sagan