@fourfivesix saidYou can be spoken bad about with you not doing anything to another. Doing good or bad is always a choice, even when bad things happen to you, you may lower your self to behave as badly or worse, or not. We are known by what we do, not by what others do to us!
If we treat people badly bad things will be said about us.
If we treat people well good things will be said about us.
So how we treat other people determines what is said about us.