Originally posted by yousers
I follow your argument quite well. I am concerned with the status of a morality for atheists because it is absolutely necessary to understand that morality, whatever it may be, rationally in order to know how one ought to live. I mean, if you don't have a clear definition of what good and evil are, then how can you try to live for good? If you aren't li ...[text shortened]... without direction. Without knowledge of how one should live, there isn't much point in living.
I can only respond personally, for myself alone, from where my life is and has taken me.
I mean, if you don't have a clear definition of what good and evil are, then how can you try to live for good?
Circumstantially, in a sense. What seems the best course of action
in this case?
If you aren't living for goodness, then what else is there that is worth the trouble?
Living itself is worth “the trouble.” I enjoy living. I don’t live
for goodness (though for many years I did); I live to enjoy the richness of living: the joy of being me and being here, the joy of relationships, the joy of the journey—in the face of whatever hardships arise (and I have not lived a hardship-free life, although there has not been that much suffering either; I understand that people might experience so much suffering that living seems to be both joyless and hopeless). Living is its own purpose, and needs no justification for itself. I strive to live a life of
eudaimonia, as bbarr puts it: a flourishing, thriving, harmonious life to the best of my ability. Acting in “goodness” seems to me to enhance that. Whether it does for someone else, I don’t know—though the posters on here seem to indicate that I am far from alone.
So, I think discussing relative vs. absolute morality is quite important.
I think it’s interesting. I think there are important social questions. And so I follow the discussions here with interest, for my own learning.
If you cannot establish something sturdy without invoking a god, then yes, I personally would believe that the existence of one is implied.
I’m not convinced of that as a general proposition. I know people who have found “something sturdy” by invoking God. I also know people who have found “something sturdy” by following the Buddha, for example.
The alternative is stumble through life without direction. Without knowledge of how one should live, there isn't much point in living.
Again, for me, living a
eudaimonic life
is the point. And it’s not generally that difficult to figure out as I go along what is helpful and what is harmful—without a “pre-paved” path. I make errors; I try to learn from them. I have never known anyone who does not make errors—including moral ones—as they go through life, no matter how well-defined their beliefs are.
Perhaps, my “something sturdy” (I like that phrase!) is some inner “gyroscope” or intuition that moves me toward harmony—within myself, with others, with my surroundings. That is not to say that there is always harmony; it is merely to say that I seem to move toward thoughts and behaviors that bring about harmony—and when I don’t, I find upon reflection that it has been because I didn’t heed that “inner sense.” Every time.
This is all purely first-personal subjective, I realize. I don’t know how else to live except in the first-person—but when I meet other people, I see that they also are living out a unique first-personal existence, and so I see them as subjects, not objects, not as a-personal. (Martin Buber’s I-Thou, as opposed to I-It.) That is the first basis for connection, for relationship. Perhaps that is why I find it difficult to discuss morality—or life—on some general, a-personal basis. (Objectivity, for me, simply means to avoid pre-judgment in my listening and observations.)
Thanks for raising these points: it was helpful for me to try to respond to them. And I’ll continue to let them “percolate” in my mind.