Originally posted by Eladar Judging an individual? Where did I judge an individual?
Explaining the hate is not judging.
Explaining the self righteous hypocrisy is not judging.
Read this sentence that you wrote again. It contains quite a few judgement calls that you are in no position to make. "But I don't know if a female can even see it since she is used to having special privilege. Too bad that only works on guys you are putting out for or you are leading on."
Originally posted by Fetchmyjunk Read this sentence that you wrote again. It contains quite a few judgement calls that you are in no position to make. "But I don't know if a female can even see it since she is used to having special privilege. Too bad that only works on guys you are putting out for or you are leading on."
It is a true statement and no judgement on an individual, just an honest statement of reality in Western culture.
Originally posted by Eladar It is a true statement and no judgement on an individual, just an honest statement of reality in Western culture.
A gross generalization to say the least.
Or do you seriously think that in Western culture every female has special privilege? Or that every women is 'putting out' or 'leading on'?
Originally posted by Fetchmyjunk A gross generalization to say the least.
Or do you seriously think that in Western culture every female has special privilege? Or that every women is 'putting out' or 'leading on'?
Did I say every? Homey don't think so.
Many? Well over half?
Definitely.
Typical?
Definitely
By the way, it was more of a comment on how guys think.
Originally posted by Eladar I never said all guys think this way. Many do. Even married guys who don't cheat on their wives need to suck up if the want to have sex.
It is played out in traditional Christian marriages as well as well as mainsteam Western culture.
Some holes you can't dig yourself out of. Far better to just crawl under a rock.