Originally posted by whiteroseBecause the word does not belong to Christians. Members of other religions can get married and so can atheists.
So what do you think about offering gay couples civil unions? With all of the legal benefits of marriage of course. Then the christians could still have their spiritual "marriage" and anyone could legally enter into a union with anyone else.
In my home country polygamous marriages can be legal (clearly not Christian).
South Africa legalized gay marriage today based on the fact that not allowing it violated the constitution.