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Originally posted by OdBod
I think that being "self centred" is just a very obvious manifestation of psychological egoism. A less obvious manifestation may be helping others, but this satisfies a need inside yourself . What our deeper needs are, can be very different from each other,and almost never understood fully by their owners . The need for the individual to express itself is egot ...[text shortened]... of "self contentedness" at a subconscious level, which does look like psychological egoism.
A less obvious manifestation may be helping others, but this satisfies a need inside yourself .

Even if true, this certainly does not suffice to support psychological egoism. The question of psychological egoism has to do with what compromises the actual object of a motivation. It holds, basically, that the object of motivation is always something concerned with one's own welfare. So, to support psychological egoism, what you would need to show in such a case is that this inner "need" is concerned materially with one's own welfare. Basically, you would need to show that the helping of others nevertheless always proceeds through motivations that are at bottom concerned with the helper's own welfare. Problem is, that is simply false, as the empirical data shows. Human motivations are often non-egoistic.

Actually, if you want to know some of my views on this (which give plenty of counter-argument and counter-examples to the issues you raise here), I had a somewhat in-depth discussion on these very topics with Zahlanzi in this old thread (the discussion starts on page 4 and runs through page 6):

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Originally posted by Grampy Bobby
Bingo!
Seems like an ironic affirmation from someone who seems to be touting 'Genuine Human Happiness" as a reason for adopting his belief system.

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Originally posted by ThinkOfOne

Seems like an ironic affirmation from someone who seems to be touting 'Genuine Human Happiness" as a reason for adopting his belief system.
Originally posted by ThinkOfOne
"Seems like only an EXTREMELY self-centered individual would be unable conceive of any desires that are not self-centered."

"Bingo!" (gb)

"Seems like an ironic affirmation from someone who seems to be touting 'Genuine Human Happiness"
as a reason for adopting his belief system." (ThinkOfOne)

Affirms the blindness and confusion and futility self-centered individuals experience in their frantic search
for escape from the horrors that reside in their eternal souls.
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Originally posted by Grampy Bobby
Affirms the blindness and confusion and futility self-centered individuals experience in their frantic search
for escape from the horrors that reside in their eternal souls.
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"Blindness" and "confusion" and "futility" and "frantic" and "horrors". I am sorry if this means your own life is not a happy one. But on whose behalf do you claim to be speaking, apart from yourself?

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Originally posted by Grampy Bobby
Originally posted by ThinkOfOne
"Seems like only an EXTREMELY self-centered individual would be unable conceive of any desires that are not self-centered."

"Bingo!" (gb)

"Seems like an ironic affirmation from someone who seems to be touting 'Genuine Human Happiness"
as a reason for adopting his belief system." (ThinkOfOne)

Affirms the blind ...[text shortened]... heir frantic search
for escape from the horrors that reside in their eternal souls.
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Do you really not understand that the desire for ones own 'Genuine Human Happiness' is self-centered in and of itself? Hence the irony?

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I believe many studies have shown that the greatest happiness is achieved through empathy ie charitable work. However, I would agree with LemonJello that happiness is not necessarily the motivation for the action. In fact, I might argue that charity as a deliberate pursuit of self happiness may actually take away from the resulting effect.

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Originally posted by Grampy Bobby
Job's not interested in any hypothetical answers from the likes of you or me. Job was blessed with prosperity and happiness, despite the severe testing for blessing (and example to the fallen angels and community in which he resided) he was chosen to undergo. Let's not be hasty in moving on; let's dwell for a few moments on the content of Job 1:10. Sugg ...[text shortened]... day in which this Old Testament Book was written:

http://www.godvine.com/bible/Job/1-10
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The interesting thing about the Book of Job is that Job comes out morally superior to God.

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Originally posted by ThinkOfOne

Do you really not understand that the desire for ones own 'Genuine Human Happiness' is self-centered in and of itself? Hence the irony?
In both chess and human life there are protocols to be followed.

Followed in chess, favorable outcomes; in life, human happiness.

Do you regard the desire to win and for happiness self-centered?
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Originally posted by Bosse de Nage

The interesting thing about the Book of Job is that Job comes out morally superior to God.
Hardly, Boss. God's intent from Eternity Past (as contrasted with Eternity Future which resumes at the cessation of time)

was/still is to share His Perfect Integrity, Norms and Standards and Happiness with both Angelic and Human Creatures.

Eternity Past) ---------------------------------- [time/human history] ----------------------------------- (Eternity Future
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Originally posted by LemonJello
[b]A less obvious manifestation may be helping others, but this satisfies a need inside yourself .

Even if true, this certainly does not suffice to support psychological egoism. The question of psychological egoism has to do with what compromises the actual object of a motivation. It holds, basically, that the object of motivation is always somet ...[text shortened]... d (the discussion starts on page 4 and runs through page 6):

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I think that that the helpers own "perceived" welfare as opposed to actual welfare is important here.That perception maybe self destructive but is still driven by psychological egoism . I tried to convey this in my original post( not very well ).

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Originally posted by Grampy Bobby
In both chess and human life there are protocols to be followed.

Followed in chess, favorable outcomes; in life, human happiness.

Do you regard the desire to win and for happiness self-centered?
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Of course they are.

Seems like only an EXTREMELY self-centered individual would not consider "the desire to win and for happiness" to not be self-centered.

Quite frankly, I'm surprised that anyone could think otherwise. How are they not self-centered desires?


Originally posted by ThinkOfOne

Of course they are.

Seems like only an EXTREMELY self-centered individual would not consider "the desire to win and for happiness" to not be self-centered.

Quite frankly, I'm surprised that anyone could think otherwise. How are they not self-centered desires?
Please recast the awkward (double negative) sentence.

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Originally posted by Grampy Bobby
Please recast the awkward (double negative) sentence.
It wasn't that important. It was mostly added for levity anyway. I'll just omit it.

GB:
In both chess and human life there are protocols to be followed.

Followed in chess, favorable outcomes; in life, human happiness.

Do you regard the desire to win and for happiness self-centered?


ToO:
Of course they are.

Quite frankly, I'm surprised that anyone could think otherwise. How are they not self-centered desires?


Originally posted by ThinkOfOne
It wasn't that important. It was mostly added for levity anyway. I'll just omit it.

GB:
In both chess and human life there are protocols to be followed.

Followed in chess, favorable outcomes; in life, human happiness.

Do you regard the desire to win and for happiness self-centered?


ToO:
Of course they are.

Quite ...[text shortened]... surprised that anyone could think otherwise. How are they not self-centered desires?
Best that we avoid wasting each others time in the future.

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Originally posted by Grampy Bobby
Best that we avoid wasting each others time in the future.
Not sure why my question should elicit such a response. Seemed reasonable enough.

Perhaps it's because you are reluctant to shine the light of truth upon your position as it is built on sand. Such a realization could only serve to undermine your 'Genuine Human Happiness'. Of course given your reluctance, one can only wonder just how 'Genuine' you really believe it is.

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