Originally posted by sjeg
Re: Contraception- one cannot take one piece of the teachings, and not another. The Church does not teach "Go forth and shag un-sheathed", but rather that sexual intercourse should be reserved for marriage. If the Church's teachings were followed in their entirity, then AIDS would not be an issue, so I feel that is a rather unfair criticism. As far as the pi ...[text shortened]... e was a good article on this in the paper here recently, which said it alot better that I might.
No one is talking about 'Going forth and shagging unsheated,'
Sjeg. A inflexible ban on birth control can conceivable diminish
the physical intimacy between husband and wife.
The so-called 'Natural Method' is a lie, for it requires copulation
during the periods of time when the women is not fertile. These
fertile times coincide with the times when she is most hormonally
interested in sex; that is, the Church is suggesting that the couple
who does not want to have children avoid sex at the very times
when the woman is most interested in it. This is most unnatural
indeed.
So, for various professional, personal, financial reasons, the couple
(for whom non-coital options do not exist, for oral sex and digital
stimulation are similarly forbidden), will abstain from engaging in
the act which most cosummates their marriage.
The reason the Church spoke out against the pill was because they
had (in the 1930s, I believe) already condemned 'artificial
contraception' in doctrinal form. The committee formed by Pope Paul
VI, comprising 64 lay members and 15 clegry
overwhelmingly
voted in favor of contraception (60 to 4 and 9 to 6, respectively).
Karol Wotilja (later to become Pope John Paul II) wrote that acting
in favor with the committee would
necessarily call into question
all Church teachings, for it would require them to acknowledge that a
previously 'infallibile' teaching was in error. It was for this reason --
for not giving people the reason to doubt the 'infallibility' of Church
proclamations -- that Pope Paul VI remained opposed to birth control.
It was
in no small part a political issue.
As for your claim that the 'sexual act' has been successfully separated
from love and marriage, please keep in mind that 'marrying for love'
is a relatively recent phenomenon in history. 200 years ago, most
people married for convenience and heirs. And, that the 'sexual act'
is any more separated from marriage than it was in the past is pure
speculation; affairs have happened since the inception of monogamy,
sex outside of marriage is no more a part of culture now than 50,
100, or 1000 years ago.
Nemesio