Originally posted by rhbCouldn't have put it better myself.
Lesson 1:
Take it to Spirituality, Spanky.
Lesson 2:
See lesson 1.
Have a look - there you can ask this very question again (96,514th time at a quick count) or answer it yourself (96,153 opportunities)
Pick any thread - they're all the same.
As for us 'normal' people in here - No. It's not. It never was.
Edit - I see it's now moved into the right forum. Hope it lives f-o-r-e-v-e-r for you!!