Originally posted by Zahlanzi
and the lord jesus will tell you "i don't fill like saving you, just as you didn't feel like helping your fellow man"
don't you remember a passage saying something like "when you help someone in need, you help me, and when you send someone in need on their way without helping them, it is me you are sending away"
I have not said I have never helped someone in need.
I was discussing the need to help someone because they
were believed to be poor. A person can be in need but
yet not poor in my view. But I do remember stopping my
car when I saw an old black man in ragged clothes that I
saw pushing a grocery cart along the street and went over
and gave him a twenty dollar bill and then left without
either of us saying a word to each other. I did that because
I felt like it might help him and I felt like it. I was not
thinking about Jesus or religion when I did it. I also have
drove by several times seeing people with signs saying
"Will work for food", but I had no work for them and I
drove on by. Sometimes, however when I had the time I
would stop by a fast food place and buy a meal and bring it
back and give to the person. Each time when I did this,
they seemed to shocked to say anything. I also remember
a time when I saw a man, his wife and little girl holding a
sign saying they needed money for gas to get home. I
stopped and gave them money to get the gas. I did this
only because I felt like it and had the time. But I do not
feel obligated to help anyone if I don't feel like it. I also
routinely give money to the local Golden Harvest Food Bank.
My wife was in charge of receiving donations from the members
of Mann United Method Church and distributiong a bag to any
one that came by. She told me of a situation in which a woman
came in to get some food and when my wife had gathered up a
variety of items to give her, the woman went through the items
in the bag and anything that did not have a brand name on it,
she asked for a repacement with a brand name item because
she said her family would not eat anything that was not a brand
name. My wife told her that if they got hungry enough they
would eat it. Most of the churches around here have these food
programs and I suspect some of these people go around from
church to church getting what they can for free. They even have
what they call, soup kitchens were a person can go to get free
hot meals. And there are homeless shelters for those who know
enough to go there instead of sleeping under a bridge or in an
abandoned building. I came from a broken home and my mother
could not afford to take care of me on her own, so I was raised
by my grandfather and grandmother, who had already raised 16
children before me. My grandfather was not rich but he worked
hard to provide and he was too proud to ask for or take charity
from anyone. Why can't we have more people like him? I feel
responsible to take care of my wife and the five children we had,
but I am not responsible to give money to anyone else. That is
just the way I feel and if Jesus has a problem with that,then so be it.