Originally posted by SwissGambit
Robbed of the negative connotations of the word 'selfish', your argument loses much of its sting.
How many of us are [b]not 'influenced to have other's happiness affect our own'? We're a social species. We are driven to act for the good of the group. I don't see what's so remarkable about that claim.
Edit: Just thought of another question. Most ...[text shortened]... really say that someone who acts on this urge is primarily acting out of self-interest?[/b]
SwissGambit, I never meant for my argument to have any "sting". I was merely stating my point of view, as I think most people in this forum do. I'd just like to offer people a different perspective of how to view the world. People usually get upset or angry when they don't understand something, and rightfully so, it can be seen as threatening. Knowing that all actions occur because of someone's effort to make themselves happy, just as you and everyone else in the world has the RIGHT to do, has helped me in my own quest for meaning and understanding of the way things are.
To answer your question, yes, I believe we still act out of self-interest (which I like better than selfish, thank you). Here is the reasoning: as you said we cringe or feel uncomfortable to see someone in pain. We take action to alleviate that discomfort and that comes in the form of adrenaline because our brain realizes what we need to do in order to prevent ourselves from feeling that discomfort. If a person does not feel uncomfortable about seeing someone in pain, will that person make an effort to stop it? No (unless there is some other motive behind it). So, the point is, in the exact same situation, a person seeing another person suffering, the person will act to eliminate their own discomfort. If no discomfort exists, then the person will not act.