12 Jan '10 09:11>
Originally posted by jaywillWhen you assume that you can persistently pepper another poster with questions, yet remain silent on questions put to you, do you think that cultivates an attitude of respect in others ?
When you assume that you can persistently pepper another poster with questions, yet remain silent on questions put to [b]you, do you think that cultivates an attitude of respect in others ?
When I ask you to state your position on the resurrection and you respond with silence while holding my feet to the fire with your questions, do you think ...[text shortened]... surrection from the dead is a demonstration of the power of eternal life, obviously.[/b]
----jaywill------------------------
I got to this piont with ToO over a year ago. What amazes me is how he can't see that he does this. He always plays with loaded dice and yet tries to convince himself that he somehow has a stranglehold on truth. How he can look himself in the mirror and actually think he is debating on a level playing field is beyond me.
You are right it leads to diminished respect and the co-operation breaks down because he won't apply the same rules and logic to himself that he expects from others. He puts forward a certain logic based on the words of Jesus and then one reflects back the same logic based on the words of Jesus (to counter what he says) and he loses interest.
He recently called me a "nutter" and is currently using this as an excuse to not listen to any of my points. However , in the past he has always maintained that the moral standing or status of an individual is not important , it's the words of Jesus that are important. This was in response to me asking him if he were righteous or sinless himself. This presumably means that whether I am a nutter or stalker or whatever should be irrelevant because it's the logic and content of my posts that are important - not WHO posts them. This was what he was asking me to consider over a year ago - but apparently (as usual) it applies to me but not to him.
He continues to personalise things as a way of avoiding content but in the past has implied strongly that the charactor of the poster himself is unimportant compared to the point being made.
It's very childish , but then of course it's not him that's being childish it's us of course.
Good luck though