Go back
dating ages.

dating ages.

Debates

m

Bible Basher HQ

Joined
28 Feb 05
Moves
3390
Clock
30 Apr 05
Vote Up
Vote Down

whats peoples opinions here on the age difference between 2 ppl going out? This is an example but i'm only 17 myself, and my best friend is going out with a 15 yr old. I'm sure you know what a group of lads is like, and when we get together we just bully each other (in a playful way) and we used to call him a pedo and stuff cuz thats just what we were all like.

do you think its wrong for people who are quite alot older or younger to go out with each other?

reason i'm asking is cuz a girl 3 yrs younger than me likes me, n i like her too. I just don't know about goin out tho...

t

Lost at Sea

Joined
27 Jan 05
Moves
10111
Clock
30 Apr 05
Vote Up
Vote Down

Originally posted by mc2005
whats peoples opinions here on the age difference between 2 ppl going out? This is an example but i'm only 17 myself, and my best friend is going out with a 15 yr old. I'm sure you know what a group of lads is like, and when we get together we just bully each other (in a playful way) and we used to call him a pedo and stuff cuz thats just what we were all l ...[text shortened]... girl 3 yrs younger than me likes me, n i like her too. I just don't know about goin out tho...
It all depends because a 18 year old going out with a 15 year old is bang out of order, but a 28 year old going out with a 25 year old is all good. I think As long as both people are over eighteen neither age really matters but under that age people should stick to their own age groups in my opinino i.e if your 14 years old then going out with someone who is 14 is fine.

m

Bible Basher HQ

Joined
28 Feb 05
Moves
3390
Clock
30 Apr 05
Vote Up
Vote Down

thats not right though. how can it change after 18? the principles are still exactly the same both before and after 18.

t

Lost at Sea

Joined
27 Jan 05
Moves
10111
Clock
30 Apr 05
Vote Up
Vote Down

Originally posted by mc2005
thats not right though. how can it change after 18? the principles are still exactly the same both before and after 18.
No because at the age of 18 people are sexually mature and classed as adults and so seen as able to make their own decisions.

m

Bible Basher HQ

Joined
28 Feb 05
Moves
3390
Clock
30 Apr 05
Vote Up
Vote Down

Society see's them as sexually mature etc yes. but many people mature much earlier than that. I don't personally see there to be a problem with say a 17 yr old going out with a mature 14 yr old. If it was a 17 yr old and a 12 yr old then i'd see the problem. Just wondered what other ppl thought.

HoH
Thug

Playing with matches

Joined
08 Feb 05
Moves
14634
Clock
30 Apr 05
Vote Up
Vote Down

Originally posted by mc2005
Society see's them as sexually mature etc yes. but many people mature much earlier than that. I don't personally see there to be a problem with say a 17 yr old going out with a mature 14 yr old. If it was a 17 yr old and a 12 yr old then i'd see the problem. Just wondered what other ppl thought.
Sounds like you've already made up you mind and you're hoping someone will tell you its OK. You're asking for trouble in my opinion.

Keep her as a close friendship and date within a year of your age. Better yet, go for older women, it will be an interesting challenge and much more rewarding if you actually pull it of. Think about it, why go after a little girl when you should be going after someone that can teach you something.

As you'll probably ignore any advice I give you, for God's sake don't knock anyone up. Cover your wagon. Don't get married before you're 25+ and until that point spend a lot of time living life as hard and as fast as possible.

t

Lost at Sea

Joined
27 Jan 05
Moves
10111
Clock
30 Apr 05
Vote Up
Vote Down

Originally posted by Hand of Hecate
Sounds like you've already made up you mind and you're hoping someone will tell you its OK. You're asking for trouble in my opinion.

Keep her as a close friendship and date within a year of your age. Better yet, go for older women, it will be an interesting challenge and much more rewarding if you actually pull it of. Think about it, why go ...[text shortened]... ou're 25+ and until that point spend a lot of time living life as hard and as fast as possible.
This mans done this before. lol

t

Lost at Sea

Joined
27 Jan 05
Moves
10111
Clock
30 Apr 05
Vote Up
Vote Down

Originally posted by mc2005
Society see's them as sexually mature etc yes. but many people mature much earlier than that. I don't personally see there to be a problem with say a 17 yr old going out with a mature 14 yr old. If it was a 17 yr old and a 12 yr old then i'd see the problem. Just wondered what other ppl thought.
Supose it's just good principle to go by.

Ouermyhte
Muffy rocks your God

Stars

Joined
08 May 04
Moves
15501
Clock
30 Apr 05
Vote Up
Vote Down

Originally posted by trawets113
a 18 year old going out with a 15 year old is bang out of order
I went out with an 18 yr old when I was 14. we got on relle well and it didnt seem like there was an age difference, we were just chilled about it.
out of order? nah mate, ur wrong.

t

Lost at Sea

Joined
27 Jan 05
Moves
10111
Clock
30 Apr 05
Vote Up
Vote Down

Originally posted by Ouermyhte
I went out with an 18 yr old when I was 14. we got on relle well and it didnt seem like there was an age difference, we were just chilled about it.
out of order? nah mate, ur wrong.
I take it your a girl then.

Ouermyhte
Muffy rocks your God

Stars

Joined
08 May 04
Moves
15501
Clock
30 Apr 05
Vote Up
Vote Down

heh, nay, im a guy.
Id think itd be slightly less acceptable for a girl to go out with someone significantly older than it wd be for a guy tho

m

Bible Basher HQ

Joined
28 Feb 05
Moves
3390
Clock
30 Apr 05
Vote Up
Vote Down

i just had another thought also. It really does depend on the country your from too. Some countries would accept sumthing like this where as other think its out of order. I'm from the UK myself and any one ages 16-21 who is from the UK on here, will probably agree with me when i say its not that big a deal here.

Ouermyhte
Muffy rocks your God

Stars

Joined
08 May 04
Moves
15501
Clock
30 Apr 05
Vote Up
Vote Down

yeh indeed that could be it, im from England too, and I suspect that Americans would be less liberal about it

t

Lost at Sea

Joined
27 Jan 05
Moves
10111
Clock
30 Apr 05
Vote Up
Vote Down

Originally posted by Ouermyhte
yeh indeed that could be it, im from England too, and I suspect that Americans would be less liberal about it
Im from englan too and i think its wrong unless they are 18 and above. or 16-30 other than that stick to your own age groups.

m

Bible Basher HQ

Joined
28 Feb 05
Moves
3390
Clock
30 Apr 05
Vote Up
Vote Down

trawets113 how old are you if you don't mind me asking? if your say 30 then what was right and wrong when you were my age isn't necessarily the same now.

Cookies help us deliver our Services. By using our Services or clicking I agree, you agree to our use of cookies. Learn More.