But how long would you be prepared to wait? Is there a time frame or age limit you have set in your mind? What age do you feel is acceptable for a teenage girl to begin exploring a relationship?
Just out of curiosity have you dated many girls more your own age. Don't have to answer if you don't want to. I'm interested to hear your opinion in the difference b/w a 14yr old girl and a 17 yr old girl. Or does it just soley depend on the individual?
Originally posted by mokkoi'm sure that most will find this hard to believe knowing what most 17 yr old lads are like, but sex isn't an important part of a relationship to me. Sure its nice, but i can happily have a relationship without it. I don't think there is an "age limit" for exploring a relationship as such, i see it more as a maturity level which determines it.
But how long would you be prepared to wait? Is there a time frame or age limit you have set in your mind? What age do you feel is acceptable for a teenage girl to begin exploring a relationship?
Just out of curiosity have you dated many girls more your own age. Don't have to answer if you don't want to. I'm interested to hear your opinion in the difference b/w a 14yr old girl and a 17 yr old girl. Or does it just soley depend on the individual?
i've dated several girls my age, two 1 year younger, and two 1 year older.
Personally and i may be biased, but i think that the difference between the girls depends on the individual. Its a fact (in the uk at least) that girls mature much faster than boys, simply because well boys will be boys. I'd say she has the maturity of a 16 yr old girl at least, and unlike some girls, its genuine maturity, not trying to act mature. I don't like her just because she's young and i can't get anyone my own age. I can get girls my own age if i want to, but i don't know theres just something about her which i like, n well one thing i'm sure noone can disagree with me on is you can't choose who you like in that way. Its an irrational feeling which you can't control.
Originally posted by PhlabibitJust out of curiousity, what made you wait 15 years? It sounds like you knew you had something good along time before that. I for one wasn't ready to have a life long relationship until my late 20's. To busy studying, partying, working and womanizing. I could barely concieve of taking care of myself let alone someone else. Probably why we don't have kids yet... too busy with work, etc...
Sweet Pickles, bud.
Check this out.
I just asked my wife... "How old should a girl be if they are to be dating a 17 year old'?
She said, "Um, 15... hmmm... 16? Yeah, they should at least be driving age."
Next she said, "Well, I guess I would have dated about half as many people back then if I stuck to that rule."
Anyway, I can't ...[text shortened]... 3 years later.
That is all speculation, based on... what was going on when I was your age.
Back to the issue at hand though, I believe this gentleman has already made up his mind and nothing anyone says will disuade him from his choice. I believe that despite his intention to wait to let the sexual games commence, there is a better than even chance that he won't be able to keep Mr. Happy in his pants. I believe that there is a 10 to 15% probability that he will manage to knock the young lady up. There choices from that point will potentially scar them for life.
I've dated single moms, had friends get abortions and one girl in highschool die from complications. This is a serious issue that to many people take a cavailier attitude towards. Though I could be full of it as I am currently three sheets to the wind... not a good way to play chess or comment in the threads.
my mind is not totally made up, if it was i would never of posted here in the first place. As yet though noone has made a point that has made me think its best not to do this. Most points made have been valid, but there also ones i've already considered myself. I see where most ppl come from with there thoughts that i'll rush into sex and end up with a kid etc, but i'm not like the majority of lads, i go against the grain. (and no i'm not gay before someone says that lol) nor am i catholic.
you sound like you have a head on shoulders for someone of your age. You are totallt correct when you say you can't controll you you like or you you are attracted to. I don't want to be a hyprocrite at all so I'll tell you my ex was 8 yrs older than me ( i was 18) now I am 30 and my guy is 5 yrs younger than me. age doesn't matter but I i can garantee you I would not have been dating a 15yr old when I was 20!
Nor would I have been with my ex when I was say 16. Sometimes it's all a matter of timing. Love always prevails over logic.
Originally posted by mc2005Do whatever you want then.... our successes and mistakes shape us... you'll have to live with yours like everyone else. Be aware that your own obvious intelligence can be your downfall, as you can reason your way into making even the stupidest decisions. Its unfortunate that our species doesn't have a genetic memory. I imagine it would be beneficial to have access to the trials, tribulations and follies of past generations. Just don't #$@! up your life sport.
my mind is not totally made up, if it was i would never of posted here in the first place. As yet though noone has made a point that has made me think its best not to do this. Most points made have been valid, but there also ones i've already considered myself. I see where most ppl come from with there thoughts that i'll rush into sex and end up with a kid ...[text shortened]... s, i go against the grain. (and no i'm not gay before someone says that lol) nor am i catholic.
BTW, your illusion that the English somehow have a superior level of maturity is bollox. I've spent enough time there to tell you with some authority that y'all are just as big a bunch of cawked up morons as the rest of the world, maybe more so given your relatively close proximity to the French.
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Originally posted by Hand of Hecatelol. i never said that the english are any more mature than any other country, but i can only talk about england because i've never lived anywhere else.
Do whatever you want then.... our successes and mistakes shape us... you'll have to live with yours like everyone else. Be aware that your own obvious intelligence can be your downfall, as you can reason your way into making even the stupidest decisions. Its unfortunate that our species doesn't have a genetic memory. I imagine it would be benefic ...[text shortened]... st of the world, maybe more so given your relatively close proximity to the French.
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Originally posted by Hand of HecateWe dated for about 5 years before we moved in together... next, we rented for a many years. I wanted kids, she did not! We talked about getting married, but wanted to wait til we had a house of our own.
Just out of curiousity, what made you wait 15 years? It sounds like you knew you had something good along time before that. I for one wasn't ready to have a life long relationship until my late 20's. To busy studying, partying, working and womanizing. I could barely concieve of taking care of myself let alone someone else. Probably why we don' ...[text shortened]... am currently three sheets to the wind... not a good way to play chess or comment in the threads.
That took a LONG TIME!
We never broke up, we never cheated on each other. I made it through 2 seven year itches, stayed faithful... as I well expect she did too (she better have, considering she's always told me she'd kill me first, then the girl if she knew I was 'with' someone)
Lol! We just moved slow is all, and I think it was worth it.
Yeah, this guys got his mind made up.
Agree, good post
Don't agree, stupid post.
Whatever.
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My girlfriend is five years older than me (I have also gone out with a girl/lady who was ten years older, at one point). We have a good relationship but the point is, and I know others have made this point: when you are in your twenties and older the age difference means less and less .
I think though when I was 14 she wouldn't (I know she wouldn't have) have looked at me in that way. At 17 you are more or less physically mature but the girl still has some way to go. Obviously you have serious feelings for her or you wouldn't have posted; and you make it clear that you wouldn't hassle her to do anything physical: so why not wait?
A year, even six months, would maybe answer your question for you and save you a lot of dilemma pondering in the meantime.
Originally posted by BowmannAlbania, Argentina, Austria, Brunei, Bulgaria, Burkina Faso, Cambodia, ... , Singapore, Slovakia, Slovenia, South Korea, Spain, St. Kitts and Nevis, Sweden, Syria, Thailand, Togo, Vojvodina, Zimbabwe.
Anyone know where I can get some 15-year-old totty?
It may be possible in some states in the U.S. but the chart doesn't definitely say yes. 16 is a common age of consent in the U.S. though.
http://www.ageofconsent.com/ageofconsent.htm
Originally posted by mc2005Hell im 25 and i was bangn' a 18 (lol just barely) yr old.. i seee noooooothn wrong with that... yum....
whats peoples opinions here on the age difference between 2 ppl going out? This is an example but i'm only 17 myself, and my best friend is going out with a 15 yr old. I'm sure you know what a group of lads is like, and when we get together we just bully each other (in a playful way) and we used to call him a pedo and stuff cuz thats just what we were all l ...[text shortened]... girl 3 yrs younger than me likes me, n i like her too. I just don't know about goin out tho...
Originally posted by AThousandYoungHere's my guess as to the best strategy for picking up little girls in the US without the parents caring.
Albania, Argentina, Austria, Brunei, Bulgaria, Burkina Faso, Cambodia, ... , Singapore, Slovakia, Slovenia, South Korea, Spain, St. Kitts and Nevis, Sweden, Syria, Thailand, Togo, Vojvodina, Zimbabwe.
It may be possible in some st ...[text shortened]... .S. though.
http://www.ageofconsent.com/ageofconsent.htm
Start in the South first (like Alabama, Mississippi, South Carolina, and Georgia). Gradually move westward, visiting all the states that voted for Bush.