So I met Kuchna on Friday. That is the girl's name. She was 5 foot 4 inches tall and for a lack of a better phrase drop dead gorgeous...smoking hot. Probably an 8 out of 10 and believe me I am very conservative with my rating. We had a very nice conversation...about cambodia and how she liked the states. I would have to say that we hit it off very quickly. She has a great personality is smart and as I said before has a great body. This would be a girl that I would love to date for free but now we get to the arrangement. First I used tact and didnt bring up the subject of money. The matchmaker went into it immediatly. Her proposal stated $1000 for every month we are married $1000 dollars for every month of courtship, 30 months in all or $30000 up front...she would have to live with me so she would also be responsible for half of all expenses.
All in all not a bad deal....she told me not to answer her right away but to think about it. So I met with Kuchna today at work and had another great conversation...after work I dropped her off at her house and made dinner plans with her for tomorrow.
Here in lies the delemma. I think I could like this girl and perhaps she could like me...I dont know if I am being dumb or what...or just over looking the arrangement. Do I take the money. Or do it for free. What if i fall and she doesnt want to have anything to do with me after 30 months once she gets her papers...and I do it for free I will be at a total loss what if I collect the cash and then we fall in love I will always have that over me...
I think I could like her and am unsure what to do...please give advise and help me weigh all options.
Tom
Originally posted by tommybearAre you sure she isn't one of those Russian brides you can buy over the internet? 😕
So I met Kuchna on Friday. That is the girl's name. She was 5 foot 4 inches tall and for a lack of a better phrase drop dead gorgeous...smoking hot. Probably an 8 out of 10 and believe me I am very conservative with my rating. We had a very nice conversation...about cambodia and how she liked the states. I would have to say that we hit it off very quickly ...[text shortened]... d like her and am unsure what to do...please give advise and help me weigh all options.
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Originally posted by Sicilian SmaugFrom what I can make out, she is trying to become a citezen of his country he lives in by marrying him, after 30 months is up she will get citezenship; the matchmaker sounds like he is the one paying.
You've lost me, are you saying that you've opened up a kind of contract where you pay her either a lump sum or money every month to be with you??😕😲 Sounds like a great idea !!!!
Originally posted by tommybearDO. NOT. FALL. FOR. HER. A girl you meet in this way could not be trusted to respect your emotions, even if you don't take the money. If you do really like her then do it for no money and court her. Understand that she may see you as having power over her so she might do things or imply she has feelings that she's doing only for selfish reasons or fear.
So I met Kuchna on Friday. That is the girl's name. She was 5 foot 4 inches tall and for a lack of a better phrase drop dead gorgeous...smoking hot. Probably an 8 out of 10 and believe me I am very conservative with my rating. We had a very nice conversation...about cambodia and how she liked the states. I would have to say that we hit it off very quickly ...[text shortened]... d like her and am unsure what to do...please give advise and help me weigh all options.
Tom
Originally posted by tommybearTom, and don't know the angle, but this just smells like a scam to me. If you have a buddy who is a lawyer I'd advise you discuss it.
So I met Kuchna on Friday. That is the girl's name. She was 5 foot 4 inches tall and for a lack of a better phrase drop dead gorgeous...smoking hot. Probably an 8 out of 10 and believe me I am very conservative with my rating. We had a very nice conversation...about cambodia and how she liked the states. I would have to say that we hit it off very quickly ...[text shortened]... d like her and am unsure what to do...please give advise and help me weigh all options.
Tom
I mean, we have a smart, attractive woman, already in the US legally (I presume) with $30K in disposable assets. If this were a case of somebody really just looking for a marriage to obtain citizenship, wouldn't she have some friends willing to help her. I'd be really careful here if I were you. Since I'm not you however, whatever you do should make for some entertaining reading on the forums.
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Originally posted by RookRAKGood point. If she's really that hot and in the U.S. she shouldn't have a problem getting someone to marry her for free.
Tom, and don't know the angle, but this just smells like a scam to me. If you have a buddy who is a lawyer I'd advise you discuss it.
I mean, we have a smart, attractive woman, already in the US legally (I presume) with $30K in disposable assets. If this were a case of somebody really just looking for a marriage to obtain citizenship, wouldn't she have ...[text shortened]... not you however, whatever you do should make for some entertaining reading on the forums.
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