Originally posted by Hand of HecateYeah.
My wife and I have been talking about having a child. Quite honsetly I've spent my life trying [b]not to knock anyone up and while I think I'll make a decent Dad I'm intimidated by the whole concept.
I think too many people go blindly into having a child with no forethought and preparation. However, perhaps I'm overthinking this. I waited un ...[text shortened]... d I'm financially secure. Still having a child is a huge responsibility.
Any thoughts?[/b]
Call your kid Shavixmir.
Originally posted by Hand of HecateI can only speak for myself on the matter...
My wife and I have been talking about having a child. Quite honsetly I've spent my life trying [b]not to knock anyone up and while I think I'll make a decent Dad I'm intimidated by the whole concept.
I think too many people go blindly into having a child with no forethought and preparation. However, perhaps I'm overthinking this. I waited un ...[text shortened]... d I'm financially secure. Still having a child is a huge responsibility.
Any thoughts?[/b]
That first child took my life from monochrome to color--- instantly. With each addition, instead of having less love to go around, my capacity has been expanded exponentially. While fairly well-off financially-speaking, the greatest of my life's riches lies within the bosom of my children.
The things I fear in life are reduced to vapor, in service to them.
They remind you of the child you once were, and the man you promised that child you would become.
Originally posted by Hand of HecateSeriously? A friend told me that raising a child is both the toughest and the most rewarding job you'll ever have. So far I think they were right on both counts. Having my daughter is, without a doubt, the best thing that's ever happened to me. If your marriage is solid, then I'd highly recommend it.
My wife and I have been talking about having a child. Quite honsetly I've spent my life trying [b]not to knock anyone up and while I think I'll make a decent Dad I'm intimidated by the whole concept.
I think too many people go blindly into having a child with no forethought and preparation. However, perhaps I'm overthinking this. I waited un ...[text shortened]... d I'm financially secure. Still having a child is a huge responsibility.
Any thoughts?[/b]
Just don't look at my profile pic. and get your hopes up too much. Naturally it's highly unlikely that your kids will be as cute as mine! 😏
Originally posted by Hand of HecateDo it
My wife and I have been talking about having a child. Quite honsetly I've spent my life trying [b]not to knock anyone up and while I think I'll make a decent Dad I'm intimidated by the whole concept.
I think too many people go blindly into having a child with no forethought and preparation. However, perhaps I'm overthinking this. I waited un ...[text shortened]... d I'm financially secure. Still having a child is a huge responsibility.
Any thoughts?[/b]
Best thing ever
Originally posted by NordlysHaving your daughter grab one of your opponent's major pieces when they're not looking is always a good strategy. Unfortunately she actually prefers to go for the horsies most of the time. She calls them "Neigh! Neigh!", 'cause that's what horses and dinosaurs say. 😀
Nice opening. I'll try it in my next game.
Originally posted by Hand of HecateSince you asked our opinions on the topic, lets weigh it out.
My wife and I have been talking about having a child. Quite honsetly I've spent my life trying [b]not to knock anyone up and while I think I'll make a decent Dad I'm intimidated by the whole concept.
I think too many people go blindly into having a child with no forethought and preparation. However, perhaps I'm overthinking this. I waited un ...[text shortened]... d I'm financially secure. Still having a child is a huge responsibility.
Any thoughts?[/b]
Cons; You'll have to dedicate a lot of time to take care of him/her/them.
Prose; We won't see much of you anymore.
Cons; You'll have all kinda of aches lose hair and on sleep.
Prose; You'll do badly with your games.
Cons; You'll go mad and knock someone up.
Prose; You'll be put behind bars.
Cons; You will lose your job and become a bum.
Prose; You wife and kid(s) will leave you.
Cons; Your wife will marry someone like... like... Bowmann.
Prose; She will ruin his life after their first child together.
I say go for it mate. Kids are the best things that can ever happen. I don't have any of my own yet, but I am planning it too. When I see my nephews and niece I get so jealous of my brother and sisters. If I was a Christian I would have been a Godfather to my best mate's son. With one smile he manages to wipe out all the worries from my mind.
Go for it mate, and make sure you get them a brother or a sister. Mine have been the best of mates since day one.
All the best whichever way you decide. Just keep one thought in mind though, if you don't do it, you will always wonder what it would have been like to be a father.
No pressure. 😉
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Originally posted by Moldy CrowSince Tom is still in there as well, I'm sure hes having a better time in the closet than he would outside it.
One look at any of your recent avatars, and everyone knows this is crap.
Why don't you just come out of the closet, Fred? Can't find the knob?
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Go for it. The biggest adjustment is the amount of freetime you have but it's all worth it. I have my 10 month old daughter in "swimming lessons" and there is nothing like seeing how excited she gets when the rubber duckies come out =)
Originally posted by Hand of HecateAs hard as it is at time... it is so cool to have a kid. I can't wait til he's talking and I can tell him just how screwed up the world really is... and talk some baseball.
My wife and I have been talking about having a child. Quite honsetly I've spent my life trying [b]not to knock anyone up and while I think I'll make a decent Dad I'm intimidated by the whole concept.
I think too many people go blindly into having a child with no forethought and preparation. However, perhaps I'm overthinking this. I waited un ...[text shortened]... d I'm financially secure. Still having a child is a huge responsibility.
Any thoughts?[/b]
If he wants to be a dancer, I'll try to talk him out of it... but in the end it will be his decision.
Getting up at 5:30 on a Saturday or Sunday stinks... but when he's looking up with a big smile ready for the new day I just have to smile also knowing I may be able to sneak a nap in later in the day.
-Phil
Originally posted by invigorateWell meaning advice I'm sure, but if your wife is over 30 as well, then it's probably a blunder. The odds of complications in pregnancy will go up dramatically the longer you wait. If you're going to go for it, then don't dillydally.
If I were you I would enjoy a last summer of childfree living....
You wont regret it.