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27 Feb 07
27 Feb 07
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I have one of the contacts from the dating site who is creeping me out, and i need your help.
I mean, i never said, or did anything to lead her on, maybe send her a pic of me, and we went for one unsuccessful date....now she's seriously creeping me out.
First it was the e-mails, and i stupidly gave her my mobile number so we could co-ordinate our meeting on the day.
Now, she's sending me vile messages about what a nasty person i am, and i swear i did nothing to lead her on...what do i do. I have a friend (female) who has offered to kick her head in, but i would never do that, another suggested a "name and shame" thing where i make a scene in a public place of her choice (as local to her as possible).
What would you do ?
27 Feb 07
Originally posted by huckleberryhoundI'd laugh at you for joining an online dating service and gettiing yourself into such a stupid mess!
I have one of the contacts from the dating site who is creeping me out, and i need oyur help.
I mean, i never said, or did anything to lead her on, maybe send her a pic of me, and we went for one unsuccessful date....now she's seriously creeping me out.
First it was the e-mails, and i stupidly gave her my mobile number so we could co-ordinat ...[text shortened]... scene in a public place of her choice (as local to her as possible).
What would you do ?
27 Feb 07
Originally posted by huckleberryhoundAvoid women. They're all as bad.
I have one of the contacts from the dating site who is creeping me out, and i need oyur help.
I mean, i never said, or did anything to lead her on, maybe send her a pic of me, and we went for one unsuccessful date....now she's seriously creeping me out.
First it was the e-mails, and i stupidly gave her my mobile number so we could co-ordinat ...[text shortened]... scene in a public place of her choice (as local to her as possible).
What would you do ?
27 Feb 07
Originally posted by Ian68But the question is, should i name and shame...what would you do ?
Avoid women. They're all as bad.
A friend suggested printing off all the creepy e-mails, and pass them out amongst the patrons of her local bar...is that too extreme for this "play misty for me " babe, or is it her just dessert ?
27 Feb 07
Originally posted by huckleberryhoundBlock the daft wench's mobile number, contact your provider tell them you are getting nuisance texts from some madwoman,tell her you will contact the police if she doesnt stop harassing you,and if that fails set her up with one of your mates..not your problem anymore! sorted !
I have one of the contacts from the dating site who is creeping me out, and i need your help.
I mean, i never said, or did anything to lead her on, maybe send her a pic of me, and we went for one unsuccessful date....now she's seriously creeping me out.
First it was the e-mails, and i stupidly gave her my mobile number so we could co-ordinat ...[text shortened]... scene in a public place of her choice (as local to her as possible).
What would you do ?
Diane
27 Feb 07
Originally posted by huckleberryhoundIt all sounds a good idea, but I'm not sure that I could actually do it myself. I'd feel like I'd sunk to her level.
But the question is, should i name and shame...what would you do ?
A friend suggested printing off all the creepy e-mails, and pass them out amongst the patrons of her local bar...is that too extreme for this "play misty for me " babe, or is it her just dessert ?
27 Feb 07
Originally posted by Ian68He'll do it if he gets deserate enough.... some people just dont get the hint until you do something to make them realise they're making a t*t of themselves.
It all sounds a good idea, but I'm not sure that I could actually do it myself. I'd feel like I'd sunk to her level.
27 Feb 07
Originally posted by Ian68But she's seriously creepy in a Sad, insecure way. If she does that to me, who else will she do it to before she wakes up and gets a life ?
It all sounds a good idea, but I'm not sure that I could actually do it myself. I'd feel like I'd sunk to her level.
Maybe she needs shown for the strange piece of work she is, don't you think ?
27 Feb 07
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Originally posted by huckleberryhoundFirst, tell her to leave you alone clearly.
I have one of the contacts from the dating site who is creeping me out, and i need your help.
I mean, i never said, or did anything to lead her on, maybe send her a pic of me, and we went for one unsuccessful date....now she's seriously creeping me out.
First it was the e-mails, and i stupidly gave her my mobile number so we could co-ordinat scene in a public place of her choice (as local to her as possible).
What would you do ?
After that ignore her. Attention, even hostile attention, is a reward in the psychological sense for such people. Give attention, behavior increases. Deny it and it will eventually go away.
27 Feb 07
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Originally posted by mokkoIf it's an annoying behavior problem then it will indeed go away. It's basic psychology. It might take a while though.
Yes, I have often lived and breathed by this theory and it works fairly well. Ignore it and it will go away.
Do NOT give her a big dramatic scene. She'll probably thrive on the attention.
27 Feb 07
Originally posted by AThousandYoungSurely it could be rectified with a short sharp shock ? I mean, I shouldn't have to put up with that, should i ? I mean, seriously!!!
If it's an annoying behavior problem then it will indeed go away. It's basic psychology. It might take a while though.
Do NOT give her a big dramatic scene. She'll probably thrive on the attention.