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Originally posted by mokkoMen are not just walking body parts. We have feelings, you know. We're living, breathing human beings, not just objects for your sexual thrills.
Not as much as wine is a world wide comfort drink. 😀
And who the heck wants a mans heart anyway when there are much better parts to be had. 😉
Originally posted by Bad wolfI think men crave sex more than women and for different reasons than women. Listen to starrman, he wants to do every woman he can. Well, I think it's natural for men to be attracted to women sexually, but a man has the obligation to keep his lust under control while the woman has the obligation to be 'selective'.
For some people, sex is all they want.
Just my personal opinion.
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Originally posted by arrakisMy thoughts are that if a man doesn't want to keep his lust under control, then he shouldn't commit to any kind of relationship, otherwise you'd just end up hurting someone's feelings, which is wrong.
I think men crave sex more than women and for different reasons than women. Listen to starrman, he wants to do every woman he can. Well, I think it's natural for men to be attracted to women sexually, but a man has the obligation to keep his lust under control while the woman has the obligation to be 'selective'.
Just my personal opinion.
Not like I'd know about any of that...🙁
Originally posted by Bad wolfAww, *hug* 🙂
My thoughts are that if a man doesn't want to keep his lust under control, then he shouldn't commit to any kind of relationship, otherwise you'd just end up hurting someone's feelings, which is wrong.
Not like I'd know about any of that...🙁
cyber-hugs are everywhere!
Originally posted by Starrmani thought the way to a mans heart was with a blunt spoon!😀
Where do you girls get this rubbish?
The way to a man's 'heart' is very simple, especially on a first date. ALL you have to do is let him know you want to sleep with him. You could be the world's worst cook, but if you lead him on, he's yours. It's that simple.
Originally posted by mokko?
Thanks hun. Means a lot. It's been soooooo long since I actually have enjoyed myself and not felt guilty about it. Although in many ways I still experience some form of guilt....it's not as overwhelming as it once once.
It's a very difficult thing to explain.....the feeling of betraying your own heart. Maybe it's just the wine talking 😛
Originally posted by arrakisNonsense, relationships between lovers are based on exactly that; the genetic predisposition to reproduce. If you're not attracted to someone you don't date them. If you are, then it's based on the subconscious desire to mate and I guarantee that if mating does not happen at some point the relationship fails.
A relationship based on sex doesn't last. It's more important to build pleasure in small things and use the sex for dessert.
What you are confusing is the nature of companionship for the times when sex is not a primary concern. To endure pairing up with another for long periods of time (as befits our current social habits in the western world) you require commonalities outside of sex.
I agree that it is important to build companionship on other things for long term ventures, but if you truly believe that the initial coupling of two people is based on anything other than sexual attraction on some level, you're wrong. The way to a man's heart is sex. The way to encourage that heart to endure in its feelings is pasta.
(I despise the notion that hearts have some special characteristic of love, by the way; it's retarded playground speak, hearts are for pumping blood.)
CAVEAT: Nordlys is an exception to this, but statistically irrelevant - sorry Noodles.