Originally posted by PBE6I've made a deal with her. I won't drink if she stops being jealous. It goes fine for a few days then she gets stupidly jealous over something. Then I drink. Poor excuse, maybe, but that's the deal.
OK, for the purposes of this thread I'll pretend you're real. Now then, do you really think the best place to find happiness is with a drunk whom you can't trust?
Originally posted by znshoSo... when you fancy a beer, what do you do?
I've made a deal with her. I won't drink if she stops being jealous. It goes fine for a few days then she gets stupidly jealous over something. Then I drink. Poor excuse, maybe, but that's the deal.
But some lipstick and smudge it on your collar or but some crotchless knickers and leave them in the car?
Originally posted by uzlessThere's no weight on any words written by someone who loves no one but himself😛
Like Professor Higgins said in an earlier thread...
Women are irrational, that's all there is to that!
There heads are full of cotton, hay, and rags!
They're nothing but exasperating, irritating,
vacillating, calculating, agitating,
Maddening and infuriating hags!
P.S. Have you found your kind of manish man-woman yet?
Originally posted by znshoShe is the one with the problem. You won't help her by letting her control you. She needs to sort it out herself. You should just get on with your life, behaving normally. If she wants to be with you, she will have to deal with her feelings. She can be with you and happy, with you and miserable, or go away. Its her choice.
I love my girlfriend but she is destroying the relationship because of her jealousy. Examples: 1) I viewed a house with a view to buy it. It happened to be near a girl I once knew (not as a lover). That girl does not even live nearby anymore, but my girlfriend screamed at me that I wanted to be near her. It's ridiculous. 2) Sometimes too tired to make love. Reaction? 'You love someone else, don't you?' Then pillows rain down on me.
Wot I gonna do?
I've been married for 27 years. In my single days perhaps the biggest waste of time I had was the time spent being devoted to girlfriends.
Play around. Get another girlfriend if you want, but if you ain't going to marry her then don't waste any more time. Enjoy the sex but keep a roving eye.
I think you pretty much know right away if you've found a lifelong companion. I don't think that you have.
