Originally posted by znshoThe "problem" is actually in the fact that you both are looking for the other to fullfill emotional needs that can only be found from within yourselves.
I DO NOT have a soul-mate / chat-line friend. This is all part of her jealousy. I correspond with my ex only becasue of legal matters. I do not love my ex.
I agree, I drink too much. No always, though. It's when I don't drink that she gets jealous. See my problem?
Originally posted by EsotericYes, she has asked these questions time and time again. I always reply, truthfully, no I do not love her. But, she insists I do still love her. I try not saying anything. She goes on. I try putting my fingers in my ears. She goes on. In the end, I agree that I do love her, just to annoy my girlfriend. Of course, that makes it worse and that's when the pillows come raining down. I turn to the bottle the next day.
Do you/does she always ask these same questions? Because if my girlfriend kept asking me i would ignore her too.
Anyway, if it is not my ex she goes on about, it's some other person real or fantasy. Once it was Debenhams 'phoning me to say our bed-clothes had arrived. She was convinced the call was from a secret lover.
Originally posted by znshoDunno mate. It's tough. Personally I would get sick of it quickly. I am as loyal as they come and if I was to get that treatment in return I probably would not hang around.
Yes, she has asked these questions time and time again. I always reply, truthfully, no I do not love her. But, she insists I do still love her. I try not saying anything. She goes on. I try putting my fingers in my ears. She goes on. In the end, I agree that I do love her, just to annoy my girlfriend. Of course, that makes it worse and that's when the pillows ...[text shortened]... ng me to say our bed-clothes had arrived. She was convinced the call was from a secret lover.
But seriously, have a look at your actions and really look into it. If you are 100% certain you are completely loyal and are being true to her and yourself, then decide the next step. Otherwise, sit down with a joint and have a chat with her.
Originally posted by ark13No, he said 'I love my girlfriend but...'
Did you miss the part where he said he loves her? Part of building a relationship is overcoming conflicts.
I would wager that her being a pain in the @rse currently outweighs his great love for her- so a dumping is the order of the day. Trust me.
When a dumping is on the cards, get in there and do it quick. She sounds like a loon. Personally, I'd get the hell out of there- I don't think she'll ever get better, so to speak. Sad, but true.
Save yourself. You won't be able to do much for her.
Originally posted by EsotericPersonally it's imposible to say what you would do in any given situation untill you've lived each moment and experienced each breath.
Dunno mate. It's tough. Personally I would get sick of it quickly. I am as loyal as they come and if I was to get that treatment in return I probably would not hang around.
But seriously, have a look at your actions and really look into it. If you are 100% certain you are completely loyal and are being true to her and yourself, then decide the next step. Otherwise, sit down with a joint and have a chat with her.
Love never needs outside advise only the occasional nudge back on the path that leads to the heart.
Cozy cuddles, tender touches, and long searching gazes into a lovers eyes tend to serve as great volume controll when trying to listen to your heart. Adjusting the antenna helps too.
Originally posted by mokkoAnd some good old fashion rumpy pumpy. Add some ice, toothpaste and warm drinks and you have yourself a lovenasium.
Personally it's imposible to say what you would do in any given situation untill you've lived each moment and experienced each breath.
Love never needs outside advise only the occasional nudge back on the path that leads to the heart.
Cozy cuddles, tender touches, and long searching gazes into a lovers eyes tend to serve as great volume controll when trying to listen to your heart. Adjusting the antenna helps too.
Originally posted by EsotericPacked up dope over 6 months ago - her insistence. Can't stop drinking, though. There's a message there, somewhere. We get off topic. It just might be, maybe, perhaps, keep fingers crossed, that this thread has convinced once and for all, I DO NOT HAVE ANY LOVERS, I DO NOT LOVE ANYONE ELSE. I only love you, Kyue, get it? Just you xxxxxxxxx Will never be unfaithful.
Dunno mate. It's tough. Personally I would get sick of it quickly. I am as loyal as they come and if I was to get that treatment in return I probably would not hang around.
But seriously, have a look at your actions and really look into it. If you are 100% certain you are completely loyal and are being true to her and yourself, then decide the next step. Otherwise, sit down with a joint and have a chat with her.
PS: Still will beat you ruthlessly at Chess. Might sometimes offer you a draw when I know I could still win. But, that's all xxxxx
Originally posted by EsotericIce on nipples? Toothpaste on willy? Not sure what she would think. Not sure what I would think! Chilli on Willy is agony!!!! Don't do it! If cooking with Chilli, wash hands thoroughly!!! Not as bad as in the eye, though.
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