Originally posted by Landisqueen170You said "It is unconditional love as long as the person I married remains of solid character." and "My unconditional love is only in place if he remains the person that I know him to be." This seems to be about the marriage being conditional on there not being 'change' and people remaining the same.
Not what I said 🙂
I did not say, "unconditional love can be cancelled by someone changing."
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Originally posted by FMFYou have to put all of what I said together, in context. I think it is clear that my position is not that couples can not/will not/should not change, but rather deceit, wherein one partner misrepresented him/herself, is a deal breaker.
You said [b]"It is unconditional love as long as the person I married remains of solid character." and "My unconditional love is only in place if he remains the person that I know him to be." This seems to be about the marriage being conditional on there not being 'change' and people remaining the same.[/b]
It's late and I am too tired to formulate any more thoughts or sentences 😉
Forgive me...
Good night 🙂
Originally posted by Landisqueen170Well, you appeared to be on the verge of ducking out and name calling there at one point and it seemed to be related to her geeing you on. She isn't much capable of discussing anything properly with people she disagrees with ~ as her posting history at the Spirituality Forum attests ~ but I think you are.
Oh, I didn't like you long before she showed up, trust me 😉
lol
Originally posted by FMFAnd you aren't much capable of giving anyone you disagree with any credit at all.
Well, you appeared to be on the verge of ducking out and name calling there at one point and it seemed to be related to her geeing you on. She isn't much capable of discussing anything properly with people she disagrees with ~ as her posting history at the Spirituality Forum attests ~ but I think you are.
Originally posted by SuzianneI am happy to engage people with different opinions and viewpoints from mine and with whom I disagree. The only 'credit' worth much in a debate or discussion on a message board is the willingness to listen, consider, and respond to another's ideas.
And you aren't much capable of giving anyone you disagree with any credit at all.
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Originally posted by FMFI don't go by what others say or think about various posters. I like to formulate my own opinion based on my personal exchanges with a poster, and try my best not to be swayed by others. Lots of posters here in the GF seem to have a long, sordid history together, of which I am not a part of (thankfully...lol) There also seems to be many sibling-like relationships where two posters just irritate the heck out of one another, but at the end of the day, there is some friendship of sorts.
Well, you appeared to be on the verge of ducking out and name calling there at one point and it seemed to be related to her geeing you on. She isn't much capable of discussing anything properly with people she disagrees with ~ as her posting history at the Spirituality Forum attests ~ but I think you are.
Of course, there is an obvious third group who do not like anyone or anything. 😕 They must be a joy to live with...
I guess I am in the random group of posters who show up on occasion. I will take a siesta from this place if and when things become too negative or hateful. I lose interest quickly at that point...
Suzianne has always been friendly and polite to me. She speaks her mind without hesitation...I see that as a positive. I also appreciate and "get" her humor...must be a "woman thing..." 😉
