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Why is it you always seem to be just moving from one problem to another. Do you ever solve them all, or is there an endless line of them waiting for you?

Maybe it's just me, but it always seems that just when I'm sure that I'm happy with everything in my life, I somehow end up discovering something that I'm not happy with but never realised before.

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Originally posted by Ian68
Why is it you always seem to be just moving from one problem to another. Do you ever solve them all, or is there an endless line of them waiting for you?

Maybe it's just me, but it always seems that just when I'm sure that I'm happy with everything in my life, I somehow end up discovering something that I'm not happy with but never realised before.
The first of the four noble truths of Buddhism more or less says that existence is suffering. So, its an endless string...

Unless you manage to follow the eightfold path, free yourself from the bonds of karma, and achieve enlightenment. But as far as I can tell thats harder than it sounds.

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Originally posted by st00p1dfac3
The first of the four noble truths of Buddhism more or less says that existence is suffering. So, its an endless string...

Unless you manage to follow the eightfold path, free yourself from the bonds of karma, and achieve enlightenment. But as far as I can tell thats harder than it sounds.
I've read about that, but I don't think it's a possible solution for me. If I was the kind of person who could follow that completely then I don't think I would be bothered about this latest thing that's got to me.

Maybe I should try Prozac instead. 🙁

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Originally posted by Ian68
I've read about that, but I don't think it's a possible solution for me. If I was the kind of person who could follow that completely then I don't think I would be bothered about this latest thing that's got to me.

Maybe I should try Prozac instead. 🙁
Can you just tackle this problem head on?

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Originally posted by eddiedean
Can you just tackle this problem head on?
It's not something that can just be tackled unfortunately. There has to be outside factors that fall into place first, and I don't think I really have control over those. If I tried to tackle the problem without that then I can see what the next problem is likely to be, and it would be way bigger than this.

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Originally posted by Ian68
It's not something that can just be tackled unfortunately. There has to be outside factors that fall into place first, and I don't think I really have control over those. If I tried to tackle the problem without that then I can see what the next problem is likely to be, and it would be way bigger than this.
Well, just try not to worry, because that never helps any thing. Maybe try to focus on the things you do want to happen, instead of the things you don't. But then again, what do I know?

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Originally posted by eddiedean
Well, just try not to worry, because that never helps any thing. Maybe try to focus on the things you do want to happen, instead of the things you don't. But then again, what do I know?
Ah. You're getting warmer. It is something I do want to happen, but there's no obvious way of making it happen right now, and I'm not sure how long it will be before it's too late for it to ever happen.

Edit: And it was a really bad idea posting this in the forum because someone will read this and think I'm talking about something different to what I am. 😳

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Originally posted by Ian68
Ah. You're getting warmer. It is something I do want to happen, but there's no obvious way of making it happen right now, and I'm not sure how long it will be before it's too late for it to ever happen.
"If you're having girl problems I feel bad for you son, I got ninety-nine problems bein' a b**** ain't one."

- Jay Z.

Of course this doesn't apply to me. I have at least ninety-nine problems and my girlfriend probably accounts for a third of them, but conversley is my refuge from the other two thirds.

If it's girl/boy stuff, don't get too worked up, these things come and go. They shine and fade, and become bittersweet memories. Then you start again.

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Originally posted by Ian68
Ah. You're getting warmer. It is something I do want to happen, but there's no obvious way of making it happen right now, and I'm not sure how long it will be before it's too late for it to ever happen.
My wife says,"If it's meant to happen, it will happen" which usually upsets me because I am trying to change or effect something I have no control over. Not only is she beautiful, but she is usually right.

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Originally posted by eddiedean
My wife says,"If it's meant to happen, it will happen" which usually upsets me because I am trying to change or effect something I have no control over. Not only is she beautiful, but she is usually right.
Total change of subject here.

Were you seriously interested in joining that clan I inherited in the forums? You seemed to try really hard to get me to let you in for a while, but then just gave up when I was almost going to.

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Especially when you try to pork the other guys Queen 😛

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Originally posted by Ian68
Total change of subject here.

Were you seriously interested in joining that clan I inherited in the forums? You seemed to try really hard to get me to let you in for a while, but then just gave up when I was almost going to.
No, I was just playing around, my loyalty belongs to only one clan. Thanks for the offer though. How is that clan going?

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Originally posted by eddiedean
No, I was just playing around, my loyalty belongs to only one clan. Thanks for the offer though. How is that clan going?
I've not tried to recruit anyone, just playing a few games myself. Won the only challenge I've finished so far though.

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Originally posted by Ian68
Why is it you always seem to be just moving from one problem to another. Do you ever solve them all, or is there an endless line of them waiting for you?

Maybe it's just me, but it always seems that just when I'm sure that I'm happy with everything in my life, I somehow end up discovering something that I'm not happy with but never realised before.
Because God wants you to suffer.

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