Originally posted by DestinyRestoredNever been married, never had a girlfriend! I"m a 19 year old kid looking for a nice girl to be with! Wish I had someone in my lifef!
I was just curious what the break down was for married, single, divorced, separated, and widowed members on this site. Tell me a little about your self.
I am happily married. I have been married for a little over a year. I married a single mom, so now I am the proud daddy of a wonderful 5 year old boy and we are talking about more children much to my delight.
Originally posted by JohnLennonForeverYou can change that. But in order to do it I need to advance your mindset about 20 years. Here's some things that, if you follow them, will help you have success.
Never been married, never had a girlfriend! I"m a 19 year old kid looking for a nice girl to be with! Wish I had someone in my lifef!
Getting a mate:
1) You have to realize that the only reason anyone might want you as a mate is because they see something in you that they admire, or want. With that in mind look in a mirror. Do you like what you see? If not, then change it! YES, it IS within your power to make physical changes to your body. If you don't want to go through the work to do that then stop complaining about being alone! Nobody will ever love you and you'll die horny and lonely! 🙁
2) No woman wants to be with a guy who's a wimp. See, there's this thing women have, some call it "natural selection". I don't want to get into a debate about this subject, but I know from experience that women constantly "test" a male. I've seen single women in bars cause men, competing for their attention, to get into a fight; and guess what? The girl goes home with the guy who won the fight. Now don't get me wrong, you don't have to be Mr. Universe to get the girl - you just have to have his attitude and something to offer.
3) If you really want a woman then you have to get control over not only your body, your life, but also your finances. Just like the thing I mentioned above about women having this need for "natural selection", they also have a strong need for security. Young girls often misinterpret security by physical strength, but as women get older they realize that security is a lot about a person's wealth. Why do you think so many beautiful women want to marry millionaires? You think it's because they are sluts!? NO! It's because they need SECURITY!
What does this issue mean to you? It means that you need to work very hard on promoting yourself. Maybe that means going to college and making something of yourself, or maybe you might find a different way to enhance your self worth... Maybe, you will just continue to cry and complain and never be smart enough to understand that you could've done something with your life, but didn't.
Right now you are lucky that someone took the time to give you some good advice. What you do with it is up to you.
Originally posted by arrakisWise words. Unfortunately, they usually fall on deaf ears.
You can change that. But in order to do it I need to advance your mindset about 20 years. Here's some things that, if you follow them, will help you have success.
Getting a mate:
1) You have to realize that the only reason anyone might want you as a mate is because they see something in you that they admire, or want. With that in mind look in a ...[text shortened]... ook the time to give you some good advice. What you do with it is up to you.