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Originally posted by FMF
Because if he thinks I am being abusive, he needs to make the case. I have made my case as to why I believe there is no onus on me whatsoever to keep supposedly "secret" abuse secret. If he thinks people knowing what Suzianne's abusive behaviour was is, in and of itself, abusive in some way, he should make his case.
I didn't ask if you had a free ticket. I asked why it isn't abusive. Was your good intention to save people? From what? Nobody has even read it and you expect them to believe on faith.


Originally posted by FMF
Did you post verbatim text from a RJHinds message on a public forum? Yes, you did. I would never have done such a thing, regardless of whether I am within my rights to do so.
it refutes Kewpies claim that a text must contain personal information, it contained none. You by contrast deliberately circulated a private text with the sole intent that its entire contents should be made available to your scoffing minions.


Originally posted by robbie carrobie
he asked you why what you did is not abusive. why are you unable or unwilling to answer it?
If he thinks it is "abusive", he should just lay out his case. I have no obligation to keep someone's abusive behaviour secret and there is no reason for me not to tell people that I have been abused. I have therefore not reneged on any obligation or betrayed any trust. So where is the supposed "abuse" on my part? It is for him to make the case.

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Originally posted by FMF
If he thinks it is "abusive", he should just lay out his case. I have no obligation to keep someone's abusive behaviour secret and there is no reason for me not to tell people that I have been abused. I have therefore not reneged on any obligation or betrayed any trust. So where is the supposed "abuse" on my part? It is for him to make the case.
He is asking you whether you think your actions were abusive. He is not asking you about other peoples behaviour, he is asking you about your behaviour.


Originally posted by robbie carrobie
He is asking you whether you think your actions were abusive.
Well I don't think they were abusive, for the reasons clearly stated. If he thinks they are, he should lay out an argument.


Originally posted by FMF
Well I don't think they were abusive, for the reasons clearly stated. If he thinks they are, he should lay out an argument.
what reasons? that you claim the text was abusive? this has no relevance as to whether your actions were abusive. I say they were because clearly you had options before you but choose to deliberately reveal the text to others who were not its intended recipients.


Originally posted by robbie carrobie
it refutes Kewpies claim that a text must contain personal information, it contained none.
If R J Hinds' reason as to why he was not returning to the forum was not personal information, then you should point to where he announced it on the public forum. As things stand, we only get this personal information from a post by you where you quoted one of his messages. I would not have done what you did.


Originally posted by robbie carrobie
what reasons?
The ones I gave in a previous post.


Originally posted by FMF
If R J Hinds' reason as to why he was not returning to the forum was not personal information, then you should point to where he announced it on the public forum. As things stand, we only get this personal information from a post by you where you quoted one of his messages. I would not have done what you did.
the citation was given to refute kewpies claim which it does admirably.


Originally posted by robbie carrobie
that you claim the text was abusive? this has no relevance as to whether your actions were abusive.
The fact that the message was abusive and threatening, to my way of thinking, lifted any obligation to keep what Suzianne said confidential and therefore no trust was betrayed or abused.


Originally posted by robbie carrobie
the citation was given to refute kewpies claim which it does admirably.
Huh? You quoted an RJHinds message on a public forum to "refute Kewpie's claim"? How so?


Originally posted by robbie carrobie
you had options before you...
Meaning I could have alerted the message, presumably? Well I have explained my thinking on that option, but you didn't address what I said.


Originally posted by robbie carrobie
He is asking you whether you think your actions were abusive. He is not asking you about other peoples behaviour, he is asking you about your behaviour.
No my actions were not abusive, for the reasons I have given, repeatedly.


Originally posted by FMF
If he thinks it is "abusive", he should just lay out his case. I have no obligation to keep someone's abusive behaviour secret and there is no reason for me not to tell people that I have been abused. I have therefore not reneged on any obligation or betrayed any trust. So where is the supposed "abuse" on my part? It is for him to make the case.
when you take an action you can't take ignorance to the cost of those action///////////s unless you are being delusional.


Originally posted by FMF
The ones I gave in a previous post.
Even if we allow that the content was abusive it does not negate that your revealing of those contents is itself not an act of abuse. It is clear that by revealing the text to others who were not its intended recipients you have abused a trust for as has been pointed out, the sender sent the text with the understanding that it was confidential with you as the sole recipient. A trust which you ruthlessly abused..

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