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I thought I'd share this as I've had it on my mind since yesterday to see what your views are.
My friend who I was having a drink with yesterday was upset. He told me that he had been going out with her for 3 years and who he was close to had split up with him. The reason that he was in tears is that she had found someone else. He had bought a house with her together and believed that he was "in love" with her until Monday 27th when he came home at the usual time and found her in bed with someone else. What he is most upset with was not that he was being cheated on but that she was with another woman. He seemed to think that it was worse that she was an "L" rather than that she had made him believe that she loved him. i told him that it did not matter that she was an "L" because love does not hurt anyone - but he seemed to think it reflected on himself.
What do people think about this situation?
Originally posted by deeply satisfiedhe could ask her to marry him.
I thought I'd share this as I've had it on my mind since yesterday to see what your views are.
My friend who I was having a drink with yesterday was upset. He told me that he had been going out with her for 3 years and who he was close to had split up with him. The reason that he was in tears is that she had found someone else. He had bought a h ...[text shortened]... seemed to think it reflected on himself.
What do people think about this situation?
if she was prepared to make a commitment to be faithful in marriage, then his wife being a 'bi-sexual ?' would not matter.
Originally posted by deeply satisfiedNow he cannot compete against that.
What do people think about this situation?
Doesn't matter with whom she cheated; it could have been a dog or else. Cheating is cheating.
On the other side, the problem with that is that being a "B" (not a "L"😉 was something she must have told him beforehands... I guess that's why he feels it's worst to find out until now.
Originally posted by deeply satisfiedIf L is short for lesbian, there's a problem, but if you meant that she's bi-sexual, it's a treat. I say, marry this woman and have lots and lots of fun.
What do people think about this situation?
I sure hope I'm lucky enough to find a woman like that when I grow up. Four milkshakes in close proximity. Mmmmmm... 😀
Originally posted by stockenare you a 'L' 😉
If L is short for lesbian, there's a problem, but if you meant that she's bi-sexual, it's a treat. I say, marry this woman and have lots and lots of fun.
I sure hope I'm lucky enough to find a woman like that when I grow up. Four milkshakes in close proximity. Mmmmmm... 😀
Originally posted by deeply satisfiedYour friend? 😉
My friend who I was having a drink with yesterday was upset. He told me that he had been going out with her for 3 years and who he was close to had split up with him. The reason that he was in tears is that she had found someone else. He found her in bed with someone else. What he is most upset with was not that he was being cheated on but that she was with another woman.
Originally posted by deeply satisfiedThe walls of this hotel are paper-thin
What do people think about this situation?
Last night I heard you making love to him
The struggle mouth to mouth and limb to limb
The grunt of unity when he came in
I stood there with my ear against the wall
I was not seized by jealousy at all
In fact a burden lifted from my soul
I heard that love was out of my control
A heavy burden lifted from my soul
I heard that love was out of my control
I listened to your kisses at the door
I never heard the world so clear before
You ran your bath and you began to sing
I felt so good I couldn't feel a thing
I stood there with my ear against the wall ...
And I can't wait to tell you to your face
And I can't wait for you to take my place
You are The Naked Angel In My Heart
You are The Woman With Her Legs Apart
It's written on the walls of this hotel
You go to heaven once you've been to hell
A heavy burden lifted from my soul
I heard that love was out of my control
L.C.