Originally posted by KnightWulfeWoW (World of Warcraft) it is. Actually that profile is quite old, I've been done with all computer games (except chess) since last November.
Massive Multiplayer Online Role Playing Game
Everquest
World of Wacraft
Guildwars
Things like that.... My guess is he just broke addiction to either EQ or WoW. 🙂
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Originally posted by deeply satisfiedThe worst thing that can happen to him now is if he allows himself to be consumed with the futile question of why, how he could have missed the signs and bury himself in selfpity. It's a waste of time. In the end he will be miserable. She won't care one way or the other how he feels about it. It's obvious she has very little respect for the man.
Can you see it in their eyes?
If he sacrifices his own opportunities in life to stay true to a woman he then finds out won't do the same for him, he'll be miserable. That's what has happened here, isn't it? He felt "deeply satisfied" with their relationship and fooled himself into thinking that she felt the same way; that she lived in total devotion to him? Now that the truth has been revealed he feels like a fool and wants to know what he did wrong? Well, the only mistake he made (as far as I can tell) is that he actually believed there is such a thing as a true and monogamous love. It goes against the very nature of the human being to only be attracted to (let alone love) just one person.
Now that he knows this, he can get out there and enjoy the smorgasbord. He can start by inviting both these ladies to a nice and healthy threesome. If they turn him down (or he isn't into that kind of thing), there's a whole lot of ladies out there that I'm sure would be happy to spend "quality time" with him, if he can just learn how to relax and not take everything so seriously.
Happiness is often accompanied by ignorant bliss. I've found that the best way to accomplish that is to not worry so much about what others do when I'm not around, but to focus more on what is happening here around me now (and more importantly: what can happen if I play my cards right, so to speak).
In short, he should get more comfortable with his own deck of cards and start to enjoy his hands. Even a bad hand can be a winner if he knows how to bluff. 😀
Originally posted by stockenLooking on the bright side, he will always have a great story to tell to the Guys down the pub.
The worst thing that can happen to him now is if he allows himself to be consumed with the futile question of why, how he could have missed the signs and bury himself in selfpity. It's a waste of time. In the end he will be miserable. She won't care one way or the other how he feels about it. It's obvious she has very little respect for the man.
If he sac ...[text shortened]... to enjoy his hands. Even a bad hand can be a winner if he knows how to bluff. 😀
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having read what people have said on this forum i am reluctant to say to him that he should consider saying "Voulez vous couchee avec moi " to his ex and her bird in a frothy "menage a trois" as i don't think he has the courage. Also he has lost confidence because he does not know why she could replace him for a woman ( what was she missing and what is so special that she has now got!!)
Although a trio does sound interesting I don't think he will go for it - I know it will have the impact of getting him out of his shell and stop him looking inward so much and he probably will have lots of fun. I think he liked feeling special because he was the "one" and now he is considering having to share his "love" with someone he hardly knows.
He has spoken to me about revenge. Does anyone have any suggestions?
Originally posted by deeply satisfiedPersonal happiness is always the best revenge. Move on and have a great life. I recommend the winning of a lottery also. When he is rich and famous and she is still going from this one to that one, we can all raise a glass at his luck that he found out before it was too late.
He has spoken to me about revenge. Does anyone have any suggestions?
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Originally posted by deeply satisfiedI want to address this statement specifically....
Also he has lost confidence because he does not know why she could replace him for a woman ( what was she missing and what is so special that she has now got!!)
A woman has a totally different feel than a man. I woman has br34sts and a v4gin4 and does not have a p3n1s.
A woman has softer hands and generally is more gentle than a man. A woman has a very specific knowledge about what a woman wants that a man could never have. A woman forms a different kind of emotional bond to another female than to a male. There are a multitude of levels as to how it is different.
It is not a replacement - it is a different experience entirely. A woman cannot replace a man and a man cannot replace a woman. If a woman is aroused by a man, only a man can satisfy that arousal. Not even a woman with an attachment can do that the same.... There is more to a man than his member.
How do I know this being a man?
Well - I have had in depth discussions with lesbians, bisexuals and have been in a relationship with a bisexual woman.
One thing he could do is ask her why she felt she had to do it and why she felt she had to do it behind his back. I still fully agree that the fact that it was done behind his back is cheating and he should either boot her or leave himself and move on...but if he is wanting to make it work, that is the place to start.
I do not recommend revenge. If he is feeling this way about having been cheated upon, he will have even more issues if he does the cheating.
Originally posted by KnightWulfeShow off!
I want to address this statement specifically....
A woman has a totally different feel than a man. I woman has br34sts and a v4gin4 and does not have a p3n1s.
A woman has softer hands and generally is more gentle than a man. A woman has a very specific knowledge about what a woman wants that a man could never have. A woman forms a different kind of e ...[text shortened]... this way about having been cheated upon, he will have even more issues if he does the cheating.