Originally posted by deeply satisfiedYou move on. Was in a 7 year relationship, she slept with someone else (a guy) - I was gone and did not look back.
I think he doesn't want to be hurt again. How can you forget someone after all that time !!!!
If this was purely a curiousity thing (the sleeping with another woman) then she would have come to him about it and talked. The fact that she did it behind his back, it is cheating. He needs to suck it up, and move on. It will hurt for a while, but he will get over it. Might be good if he avoided relationships for a while and just stuck to having casual sex (if he can do such a thing.)
Originally posted by zebanoMaybe he didn't know how to spell it and was afraid his spelling of the word would offend us. I know nothing would offend Nordlys more than a "lesbain".
Alright thats 2 of us who want to know now. How does theord "lesbian" offend anyone?
(yes, I am serious, incredulous but serious)
Originally posted by tmetzlerI agree. I think you should take your lesbian girlfriend out with the other Bird and suggest a threesome. What is the worst that can happen? She could say no and leave and you are in the same position as you are now. A bloke who picked a lesbian to shack up with!
"My friend who I was having a drink with yesterday was upset"
And while we are at it, lets drop the "friend" facade.
IMNSHO, either it happened to YOU or it didn't happen at all.
Originally posted by MesmirisI think that perhaps all of the advice to the lovelorn has missed the mark. Did you ever think that you just weren't enough to satisfy her?
I agree. I think you should take your lesbian girlfriend out with the other Bird and suggest a threesome. What is the worst that can happen? She could say no and leave and you are in the same position as you are now. A bloke who picked a lesbian to shack up with!
Originally posted by deeply satisfiedThis has to be the funniest thing I have read in the forums for a long time.
i am wondering if there are any tests that you can do to show that your girlfriend fancies someone of the same sex. For example - will she get embarrassed if you drop into the conversation "lemon" sherbets or "leamington spa". Or will it make her angry?
Can you see it in their eyes?
I live near Lemington Spa, and never thought it could perhaps be used to make bi-curious woman angry.
Work tomorrow is going to be a riot!