Originally posted by StarrmanAren't most women? (Oh no, there I go generalizing again... sigh)
I'm guessing that you're attracted to your typical alpha male type? Is this correct?
However, at the risk of offering "too much information", my therapist keeps telling me that, due to certain events in my past, my "antenna" is broken, or at the very least, severely bent, and I should actually stay away from the men that innately attract me. Go figure.
Originally posted by SuzianneWell there you go, alpha males are emotionally and sometimes intellectually retarded. If that's the sample group you're getting your experiences from then yeah, they're rubbish, but not all of us are like that I promise.
Aren't most women? (Oh no, there I go generalizing again... sigh)
However, at the risk of offering "too much information", my therapist keeps telling me that, due to certain events in my past, my "antenna" is broken, or at the very least, severely bent, and I should actually stay away from the men that innately attract me. Go figure.
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Thanks for the advice people. I still haven't told Robert that I have been discussing his affairs with the rhp. I'm sure he'd find it funny if he weren't so down.
Anyway - just an update. He saw Rachel for the first time since she let the cat out of the bag. It seems that they still like each other and rachel says that she still has feelings for him .. as well as this girl she fancies. What Robert is desparate to find out is can his "ex" love 2 people sexually ( of different sexes) or is like having your cake and eating it - a greed thing. Will it all end in disaster if they try to get it back on?
Originally posted by deeply satisfiedWhere do I start? OK the shortened version. Bang them both you retard!
Thanks for the advice people. I still haven't told Robert that I have been discussing his affairs with the rhp. I'm sure he'd find it funny if he weren't so down.
Anyway - just an update. He saw Rachel for the first time since she let the cat out of the bag. It seems that they still like each other and rachel says that she still has feelings fo ...[text shortened]... and eating it - a greed thing. Will it all end in disaster if they try to get it back on?
Originally posted by deeply satisfied"Polyamory, in its broadest usage, is the practice or lifestyle of being open to having more than one loving, intimate relationship at a time, with the full knowledge and consent of all partners involved. Persons who consider themselves emotionally suited to such relationships may define themselves as polyamorous or polysexual (a blanket term), often abbreviated to poly." (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyamory)
Thanks for the advice people. I still haven't told Robert that I have been discussing his affairs with the rhp. I'm sure he'd find it funny if he weren't so down.
Anyway - just an update. He saw Rachel for the first time since she let the cat out of the bag. It seems that they still like each other and rachel says that she still has feelings fo ...[text shortened]... and eating it - a greed thing. Will it all end in disaster if they try to get it back on?
Is this what's being suggested?
Originally posted by Moldy CrowWHOA! Did that happen to you, Moldy?
So it's ok for the one you love to steal your credit cards, max them shopping for her lovers, get drunk and wrap you car around a tree, killing your dog in the process?
Bleedin Jesus, every time you open your mouth you torment me with stupidity!
No reason to get hysterical on me. We are trying to discuss an issue here as adults. I say that his girlfriend probably did love him; and no, that didn't make her cheating alright. But if they both really loved each other they could work through it.
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I just wanted to let people know that Rob has made some decisions about getting back with Rach. Rach sat down with him a couple of days ago and asked ihim if he could come back because she did not want people to know that she preferred women. She told him that she had been having feelings for young girls a year after she had started going out with Rob but did not dare mention it to him because of fears that Rob would dump her. She had decided to go the whole way because she did not feel that her life would get any better. She still likes Rob and does not mind having sex with him though she prefers "to be close" with other women.
Having been told this Rob became sure that he did not want to go out with her and felt that he is scraping the bottom if he tried to get back with her. He still wants to be intimate with Rachel - he has always liked her since he first saw her - but he now knows that she sees him more of a "friend" than a "boyfriend".
He told her yesterday that he was finished with her and that she had lied to him - which was totally unacceptable. If she likes girls - she has to be open with her friends and be honest.
respect.
Originally posted by SuzianneMy experience says - yes they are!
Aren't most women? (Oh no, there I go generalizing again... sigh)
However, at the risk of offering "too much information", my therapist keeps telling me that, due to certain events in my past, my "antenna" is broken, or at the very least, severely bent, and I should actually stay away from the men that innately attract me. Go figure.
Originally posted by deeply satisfiedI think that she should have never got involved with him if she had any doubts... she is a bitch for going behind his back... Sorry for the language, but if she is going to engage into such a commitment she should be commited!!! AND FREE OF DOUBT!! I feel for the guy, its sad really... he must be a good guy.
I thought I'd share this as I've had it on my mind since yesterday to see what your views are.
My friend who I was having a drink with yesterday was upset. He told me that he had been going out with her for 3 years and who he was close to had split up with him. The reason that he was in tears is that she had found someone else. He had bought a h ...[text shortened]... seemed to think it reflected on himself.
What do people think about this situation?
Originally posted by deeply satisfiedI'd have taken my clothes off and porked both of them after saying welcome new roommate.😛
I thought I'd share this as I've had it on my mind since yesterday to see what your views are.
My friend who I was having a drink with yesterday was upset. He told me that he had been going out with her for 3 years and who he was close to had split up with him. The reason that he was in tears is that she had found someone else. He had bought a h ...[text shortened]... seemed to think it reflected on himself.
What do people think about this situation?