Originally posted by deeply satisfiedLesbian, Bi , straight ; whores come in all shapes and sizes. Monogamy is a seperate issue from sexuality.
I thought I'd share this as I've had it on my mind since yesterday to see what your views are.
My friend who I was having a drink with yesterday was upset. He told me that he had been going out with her for 3 years and who he was close to had split up with him. The reason that he was in tears is that she had found someone else. He had bought a h ...[text shortened]... seemed to think it reflected on himself.
What do people think about this situation?
One of the other things nobody commented on- How could she have not known she'd get caught? He came home at the usual time, and she's in bed with someone else....That's a clear sign she meant to hurt him in the worst possible way. She's a slut, a whore, and a crappy human being. Hey, things happen. So she discovers she's got feelings for chix, or a chic. She can't sit down and break it to him and talk it through? She breaks it to him this way?
I've never laid hands on a lady in anger in my life. But she ain't no lady. He should have thrown both of them out (bodily), followed quickly by her things.
The only way "your friend" can get over this is with a technique I call confrontation therapy. He must confront the horrible girl on girl monster that is haunting him in order to overcome it. There are a few simple ways to do this:
1. For mild grief simply go to the video store and rent some girl on girl action videos. This will take a lot of courage, but the hard part will be watching them. He'll need a few days off work and to unplug the phone, but this is all in the name of mental health.
2. If the grief is more severe he may need a more intense confrontation. For this you will need the following: no less than 300 dollars cash, several capsules of ecstacy, assorted soft drugs, hard liquor and champagne. Take the cash and ecstacy to the nearest dance club. Find two girls without dates, and using the cash and ecstacy convince then to come back to his place to act out the scene of the crime. He'll know when he's over it when he can jump in. When selecting girls, remember ugly is easy, don't go for the hottest ones on the floor, but their slightly less attractive counterparts.
The purpose of these exercises is to put a less hurtful face on the girl on girl experience. Even if it doesn't work, it's better to try to hook up with two girls than to end up crying like two girls.
Originally posted by deeply satisfiedSounds to me like he has no idea what "love" is! 😲
I thought I'd share this as I've had it on my mind since yesterday to see what your views are.
My friend who I was having a drink with yesterday was upset. He told me that he had been going out with her for 3 years and who he was close to had split up with him. The reason that he was in tears is that she had found someone else. He had bought a h ...[text shortened]... seemed to think it reflected on himself.
What do people think about this situation?
Why is it always the male who claims to "love" a woman, but then get's upset if she wants to have sex with someone else!? 😕
That is not LOVE, it's "conditional love"... which means that "I LOVE you as long as you meet my conditions"!
Yeah, you wanna atalk about real love? Real love is loving the person WITHOUT putting any conditions on them! REAL LOVE is wanting the person to be happy and allowing them to do what makes them happy.
Originally posted by arrakisThat's total crap.
Sounds to me like he has no idea what "love" is! 😲
Why is it always the male who claims to "love" a woman, but then get's upset if she wants to have sex with someone else!? 😕
That is not LOVE, it's "conditional love"... which means that "I LOVE you as long as you meet my conditions"!
Yeah, you wanna atalk about real love? Real love is loving the ...[text shortened]... LOVE is wanting the person to be happy and allowing them to do what makes them happy.
Originally posted by Hand of HecateI concur.
That's total crap.
"In 1986 psychologist Robert Sternberg published his famous triangular theory of love in Psychological Review (Vol. 93, No.2, 119-135), which postulated a geometric interpretation of love. According to the triangular theory, love has three components:
Intimacy – which encompasses the feelings of closeness,connectedness, and bondedness.
Passion – which encompasses the drives that lead to romance, physical attraction, and sexual consummation.
Decision/Commitment – which encompasses, in the short term, the decision that one loves another, and in the long term, the commitment to maintain that love."
Sounds like a conditioned thing... the whole thing.
Originally posted by arrakisSo it's ok for the one you love to steal your credit cards, max them shopping for her lovers, get drunk and wrap you car around a tree, killing your dog in the process?
Sounds to me like he has no idea what "love" is! 😲
Why is it always the male who claims to "love" a woman, but then get's upset if she wants to have sex with someone else!? 😕
That is not LOVE, it's "conditional love"... which means that "I LOVE you as long as you meet my conditions"!
Yeah, you wanna atalk about real love? Real love is loving the ...[text shortened]... LOVE is wanting the person to be happy and allowing them to do what makes them happy.
Bleedin Jesus, every time you open your mouth you torment me with stupidity!