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Are people basically good?

Are people basically good?

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Originally posted by @kellyjay
Whatever standard we have for good, could it ignore bad behavior and call someone good?
What do you mean "ignore bad behaviour"? You mean forgive it when that bad behaviour is aimed at me? You mean disassociate from people who do bad things? You mean not support the application of the law when the bad things contravene it?

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Originally posted by @kellyjay
If it is a good standard can it ever lower its standard to justify bad behavior?
How am I trying to "justify bad behaviour"?

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Originally posted by @fmf
Moral codes make interactions between people work. Moral codes vary in terms of their formation, content, application and effect. The "standards of good" are the result of nature, nurture and communal living.
Standards of good that change are not really standards of good are they?
Years ago some human behavior was completely acceptable, that are not today.
Some behavior today would not have been acceptable a few years ago.
If the standard shifts to suit opinions that really isn't a standard for good as much
as it is for a code of conduct, you can get along in communal living while doing
very wicked things.


Originally posted by @kellyjay
The standard of good you think can ignore things that are wrong, bad, harmful, shameful, unloving, uncaring?
How many times have I told you that if your religious beliefs make you want to call everybody "evil", then you should go for it. Ignore what you want. Acknowledge what you want. If you feel the need to call people "evil" - and to call yourself "evil" - nothing is stopping you.

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Originally posted by @fmf
What do you mean "ignore bad behaviour"? You mean forgive it when that bad behaviour is aimed at me? You mean disassociate from people who do bad things? You mean not support the application of the law when the bad things contravene it?
No I'm actually trying to not to put anything on you in this conversation!
It isn't about you and me it is about the standard for good.

I can accept things thinking they are good and run with them only later to find out oops,
this was really bad. You could do the same, not trying to put anything on you or me with
this, but 'good' has a very powerful definition that shouldn't be ignored if we are going to
attempt to call ourselves that.

The standard of "Good" can it accept bad behavior, can it ignore bad behavior, can it be
called "Good" if it did?

My point is that it cannot, so when I look at my life I have to acknowledge my short
comings, my flaws many of which you see very clearly. That said, I know I'm not good!


Originally posted by @kellyjay
Standards of good that change are not really standards of good are they?
Of course they are. What's wrong with "change"? If Iranian people push homosexuals off rooftops to their death on the pavement below and doing so is justified by their belief in the Abrahamic God ~ and then later they "change" and stop doing that because it's not seen as "good" anymore, that's a good thing surely?


Originally posted by @kellyjay
No I'm actually trying to not to put anything on you in this conversation!
Then why do you keep referring to what you see as my "bad" or "not good" behaviour post after post after post?

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Originally posted by @fmf
Of course they are. What's wrong with "change"? If Iranian people push homosexuals off rooftops to their death on the pavement below and doing so is justified by their belief in the Abrahamic God ~ and then later they "change" and stop doing that because it's not seen as "good" anymore, that's a good thing surely?
Cultural codes of conduct are not the same thing as "good", those are just the way things
are done around there.


Originally posted by @kellyjay
Some behavior today would not have been acceptable a few years ago.
If the standard shifts to suit opinions that really isn't a standard for good as much as it is for a code of conduct, you can get along in communal living while doing very wicked things.
The human condition is something of great complexity and diversity. This includes the fact that it changes.

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Originally posted by @fmf
Then why do you keep referring to what you see as my "bad" or "not good" behaviour post after post after post?
Stop focusing on each of us and think about 'good' if we spend time comparing ourselves
to our selves that isn't good, that is just us not being as bad as the next guy.


Originally posted by @kellyjay
Cultural codes of conduct are not the same thing as "good", those are just the way things
are done around there.
Morality is a guide for interacting with other people. The content and reasoning behind these guides varies from person to person and from culture to culture and from era to era.


Originally posted by @kellyjay
I can accept things thinking they are good and run with them only later to find out oops, this was really bad.
So what? You've already stated that you believe everyone is evil and wicked. So what if "later" you think "oops" about something that someone did?


Originally posted by @kellyjay
That said, I know I'm not good!
OK, I will take you at your word. "Evil", "wicked", "not good". Call yourself whatever you want. Call me whatever you want.


Originally posted by @kellyjay
Stop focusing on each of us and think about 'good' if we spend time comparing ourselves
to our selves that isn't good, that is just us not being as bad as the next guy.
You keep mentioning my "behaviour" on this forum to make your supposed 'point' about me not being a basically good person. I have not been talking about your "behaviour" on this forum. I have simply been taking your repeated assertion that you are "evil" at face value.

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Originally posted by @kellyjay
You said ask someone who has interacted with you, I have, I don't call you good for things you've said here.
OK, so you don't call me "good" because of your interactions with me on this message board. So what?

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