Originally posted by ThinkOfOne
You ask lots of questions 🙂
Which one specifically?
I understand the game alright . I've seen it before. Have a debate with someone about something , but don't really have the debate in good faith , kinda hang back a bit and be a bit vague. Give the impression that you are willing to answer questions honestly and in good faith but then find a subtle way to deflect and and avoid answering them. You would make a good politician!
The game can be played consciously but is often played unconsciously. The intention is to slowly frustrate and wind up the person who is debating with you in the hope that they will somehow blow their top and say stuff that will devalue their argument. Then you will be able to say to yourself "Look I knew I was right , he went red in the face and started getting angry , he must have been talking crap" .That way you can avoid having a proper debate in good faith (where you may have to risk having your arguments put on the table and exposed to criticism) and you are able to walk away content in the belief that you were right all along , just as you always knew you were.
This game is often played in a different form by streetwise Italian footballers who grab an opponent while the ref isn't looking and then look all innocent when he retaliates. It's also played by older brothers on younger brothers. The idea is to get the other person to make a fool of themselves but ironically it can backfire and make the instigator look foolish.
You know full well the question I had just asked you and if you didn't then all you would have had to have done is re-read the most recent posts to find it. In any case it would be nice for you to answer ANY of my questions in good faith. I know this and you know this , so are you playing this game consciously?
I will not be red carded or allow my position to be devalued by playing your game. Maybe this is what your God is like. He hides away , not really knowable or sharing the truth. He's a game player. Is that it?