Originally posted by stellspalfie
"Do you know joy , self control , love , patience and peace yourself? If so what are they ? How do people get them? Where do they come from?"
We are basically talking about human emotions. which come from a mixture of nature and nurture. many aspects of behavior are passed through genetics, because of your dna you may be more likely to produce mor ...[text shortened]... in the balls hurts. this is all pretty obvious stuff, is this the kinda thing you were after.
If is quite the case that Paul's list seems not to mention things which anyone could cultivate, even an atheist. So what is so much a "fruit of the Spirit" about these virtues ?
Love, joy, peace, long-suffering, kindness, goodness, etc. etc.
According to experience we learn that there is a difference in these attributes exercised in the natural man and those expressed from the enfluence of the Holy Spirit.
Take love for example. In the natural man, as much as you LOVE a person today, if things turn out wrong, exactly to that degree you will HATE them. There is a self centeredness in natural human love.
Now the Holy Spirit cultivates a love in man. But the more He cultivates the love which is of Christ the more unlimited it becomes. This is a love which eventually can flow out even to one's enemies.
I may really love my teenage son. But if he steps on my heart too much that love will turn to an equal amount of annoyance, displeasure, rage even. The love flowing out of the Holy Spirit can so deepen in a man so that it seems to be without limit.
This is why the Christian who gives up himself to God completely in consecration will undergo the testing of Christ's life in him. I said that that Christian martyr was left in a deep pit for 15 years !
That requires a divine longsuffering which is Jesus Christ.
That requires a peace which no atheist has, and a joy that no humanist or agnostic has, and frankly a faithfulness and goodness that is without limitation.
Many times in the Bible this subtle difference was highlighted. For example, Peter assuring Jesus that he would not betray Him. Peter insisted that he would be faithful to the end. Jesus warns him that before the cock crows in the morning twice, Peter would DENY his Master three times.
It was as natural for Peter to deny the Lord Jesus as it was for the rooster to crow in the morning. Our fallen humanity simply does not have what it takes to follow Jesus. Peter failed of course, wept bitterly with disappointment.
But Peter learned that he could not trust himself at all. And he learned that we Christians must become
"partakers of the divine nature" (1 Pet. 1:4)
that's long enough for this post.