Originally posted by twhitehead
My understanding is that it has to do with the brain specifically how the brain develops very early on in the womb. Normal (as in not gay) male and female brains differentiate in the womb and are distinctively male or female by birth. Although there is considerable range (with some characteristics overlapping between the sexes).
These brain differences a tics of the mother, the child or a result of the environment, or a combination of all three.
I think environment can have a big effect regardless of hormone levels, if you are male for instance, and raised with an all female family it would be no huge surprise for the guy to think the way women do and become gay later because of his upbringing with several sisters, say, no dad around, broken home, only mom and 3 sisters.
That is definitely a factor. And the other way round for a girl. Raised in an all male family, no mom around, which is of course not a one way street to being gay but it increases the likelyhood of someone who would otherwise be on the fence to tip over into gay land.
The bottom line, so to speak🙂 is to celebrate diversity. Of course in religious societies like the repressive right wing set in America or the Sharia laws in some Islam countries, diversity is the last thing on any of those people's minds. So-called minds.
I suppose he is talking about the wide end of the tunnel meaning you are still alive and are free to partake later if you wish while those on the short end also have short but fun lives....