Originally posted by vishvahetu
Spiritual living is about mercy, kindness, compassion, non-violence, purity and character.
I think a person who has achieved a degree of spiritual balance in his or her life also has characteristics such as not excessive vanity, an appropriate degree of humility, healthy doubt, curiosity, the embrace of diversity and disagreement, a reasonable, positive and not overbearing ego, tolerance and open-mindedness, common decency, manners, a non abusive approach to discourse, manageable anger and so on.
On another thread you talked about your decision long ago to seek a "perfect existence" but - think about it, would you? - how short do you yourself feel you have fallen? Your character is not only something that exists in your own mind. You "character" is also something that is perceived by others based on your words and deeds.
What have people been saying? Well, you are shockingly and self-defeatingly vain, incessantly abusive, unkind, often incoherent or contradictory, ill-mannered, prone to anger, largely unable to communicate properly, misanthropic, "intellectually" and "spiritually" tyrannical (this being the best expression I could come up with, and the two words are in quotation marks because in fact I often feel that your posting style actually strangulates 'intellect' and 'spirituality' and leaves only a kind of sterile, astonishing, hectoring nothingness), many people see you as self-consumed, bizarrely self-righteous, and sometimes willfully ignorant too (as in the case of your meaning-sapping, unconventional, self-seeking, insulting use of certain vocabulary) and so on.
Considering your shameful demeanour on this forum, and your disgraceful abuse of fellow posters, and considering you claim that your spiritual belief system is "about mercy, kindness, compassion, non-violence, purity and character", why would anyone want to emulate you or subscribe to whatever it is that has produced you and your forum persona? Do you have any faculty for introspection and evaluation of your own behaviour on this forum whatsoever?
I am saying all this in good faith, with kindness and compassion, and in the hope that your turbulent, counterproductive, outrageously hostile and rude contributions and attitude to other members of this community [be they theists or atheists, and whatever their belief systems may be] can be adjusted so that you become an effective and respected advocate of what you believe.