Originally posted by Darfius
Me neither. But He takes away all sadness when we are with Him. And I'm not saying write off your family, but try to bring them with you! When you accept Christ, you enter into a huge family, with our Father in Heaven. Don't damn yourself for earthly pleasures.
This is the crux of where we disagree - I don't believe I AM damning myself for earthly pleasures. Because I don't believe in the Christian view of God. And you have to admit, that even Christians disagree fundamentally on concepts such as Heaven and Hell.
I don't know what awaits us in the great hereafter, but I'm utterly convinced that I'm not going to be judged for not being a committed Christian. (Even my daughter's Grandma believes I will go to Hell - the only reason being that I haven't been baptised, and only baptised people can get into Heaven).
So not only do we have a great swathe of "religions" to choose from - but many of those religions are divided and sub-divided - Christianity more so than most, I believe. Protestant, Catholic, Mormon, Greek Orthodox, Jehovah's Witnesses, Church of England...a multitude of cults in the USA and other countries. The list goes on. They can't all be right, can they? Can I go to Heaven without being baptised? No need to answer that, I'll never be baptised - I don't see how I could ever believe in a God who judges people so.