Originally posted by TheSkipper
Oh, this is interesting.
Let me first say that I respect whatever you choose to believe or not believe.
You mentioned earlier that you do not believe in marriage, yet you have a 'partner'. What, in your mind, is the demonstrable difference between a wife and a partner? Further, what do you have against marriage, assuming it is conducted at city hall or something?
TheSkipper
My partner is the person I choose to have a relationship with, nothing more. A wife is someone I would have signed a legally binding agreement with, possibly in the site of god and someone I would be committing to spend my life with regardless of the possible situations that might arise.
It is the institution of marriage I have a problem with. I feel that it is seen as a guarantee of a good arena to raise children, when it fails time and time again. I feel it is often too constrictive for people to adhere to. I think that this pressure can be intolerable to the point where the marriage breaks down. I know only one family that is old and happy and even then the father had an affair and it is only a rare amount of understanding and trust that has ensured it has overcome this. These are rare qualities in this time.
IMO if the social perceptions of relationships were free of the prejudice of the need for marriage, then dynamic and trusting relationships could be more stable and nourish the development of children.
Please understand I am not saying that all marriages are doomed to fail, nor that I have any concrete solution to the issue, I know my ideas of a world without marriage is in part conjecture. I am just of the opinon that marriage is unnecessary and that too much emphasis is put on it.