Originally posted by ivanhoe
[b]Vistesd: "... 2) to try to get other people to behave the way we think they ought to. ... "
Isn't developing ethical theories more basically a case of trying to find out what I myself ought to do ?
Maybe I should refrase the question as follows:
Shouldn't developing ethical theories in the first place be an attempt of trying to find out what I myself ought to do ?[/b]
I don’t know... Personally—which is the only way I can speak here—I have never been able to submit myself to a moral theory, or principle, if it just didn’t
feel right... Which won’t win me any debates... π
I’ve tried to analyze my own moral viewpoint—which is much different now than it was, say 15 years ago. I look at myself, with all my fears, desires, searching, etc.—and I look at another human being, and say: “It must be similar for them.” I call that “recognition.” Out of that comes a sort of sympathy—compassion, if you will.
Until I was about 40, I lived my life trying to adhere to certain “deontological” principles. My “programming” from a pretty young age, seems, in retrospect, to have gone something like this:
(1) My existence must be somehow justified.
(2) Justification is found in fulfilling my obligations—not just as they arise, but in the continual active seeking out of those obligations, or moral duties.
(3) Ultimately, I will fail—at least some of the time. (In my experience, much of the time—especially when there seemed to be a real conflict between moral choices.)
(4) When I fail, there is the hope of “justification by faith through grace.” (That was the Christian/Lutheran part; I think the Lutheranism I imbibed was tinged by a bit of Puritanism.)
I adhered to that schema faithfully for, oh, about 25 years. When I was around the age of 40, give or take, all that began to fall apart during what I call “the slow catastrophe” part of my life. I now reject (1) completely--by which I mean that I reject the whole notion that my existence can be, or needs to be, justified: I reject justifcation as any kind of
existential category (which is not to say that I reject the word, as in providing reasons for particular actions); my existence I simply take as a brute fact.
Bbarr once suggested that I read Kant’s
Groundwork for a Metaphysics of Morality. Now, although I often agree with bbarr’s moral view (and think Kant had some good points), I could not read that book. I had a strong emotional (nonrational/irrational) reaction to the seemingly constant use of the word “duty.” I actually threw the book down. I have the same reaction to Divine Command Theories.
Now, I’m not saying that I threw out Christianity and “supernatural theism” on account of that—that is for other reasons. I’m pretty dedicated to analyzing my own thoughts, feelings, etc. I doubtless will never cease....
This is all pretty convoluted, but maybe it offers some insight to my own thinking... π