How the heck does anyone function in this world when dealing with chronic liars. Not only chronic liars in the harmless sort of white lie type either. I mean viscous, life altering absolutely outragous lies! I'm at my wits end in dealing with someone elses out right lies. The worst part is I have no choice but to listen to these evil words of twisted dementia. It's driving me insane! Does truth always prevail or do liars actually get anywhere in life with their complete and total BS all the time?
Originally posted by mokkoliers do get away with it for most of there lives,
How the heck does anyone function in this world when dealing with chronic liars. Not only chronic liars in the harmless sort of white lie type either. I mean viscous, life altering absolutely outragous lies! I'm at my wits end in dealing with someone elses out right lies. The worst part is I have no choice but to listen to these evil words of twisted dementia ...[text shortened]... prevail or do liars actually get anywhere in life with their complete and total BS all the time?
but life at the end of the tunnel,
when they reach 45 to 50 years,
they forget what they said the day b4,
as it is not the truth,bad lier,ps
have years of fun with all the bullsh;t
your head will be cabbage,
then come to see me,
i will lock you up,
this is what a lier can do to you,
buy some earmuffs,ðŸ˜
You'll probably find that they eventually have trouble keeping up with all the lies they've spun and sooner or later they will slip up and cause a lot of trouble for themselves.
Edit: I watched some story on Oprah one day where she talked about a lady who rang up the local radio station with tales about her partner in the army who went to war or something - and she was pregnant with his kid. It was all made up, but the listeners were hooked and the crew on the radio program became emotionally attached and let her keep ringing in with the latest news. Eventually she couldn't handle it all. Does anyone else remember that?
there are many ways you can deal with a liar ... the choice you make is not very important ... their lies are only a temporary/deflating issue for you ... just remember that this is their issue and not yours.
the choice the liar makes is very important ... their lies will follow them around ... and inflate ... their most loved friends and family will easily see the lies for what they truly are ... other people will also compare stories behind the liars back ... the liar must take some very serious action .. or face some very serious consequences.
Well these are outrages lies being told in a court of law. Isn't that illegal? I hope it's punishable by death. ðŸ˜
Hey, quick question......
If someone acusses you of doing something on your computer (which wasn't done) can you offer your computer as evidence. Meaning can they go through your computer and check for themselves that it's a lie?
Originally posted by mokkoyes they can check your pc,
Well these are outrages lies being told in a court of law. Isn't that illegal? I hope it's punishable by death. ðŸ˜
Hey, quick question......
If someone acusses you of doing something on your computer (which wasn't done) can you offer your computer as evidence. Meaning can they go through your computer and check for themselves that it's a lie?
are you guilty
stay away from pawn
porn, 😳😳
Originally posted by THEMADDOCTORNo I'm not guilty! It's way more outragous than porn. I am in utter shock right now after reading a sworn statement by my ex that I tried selling our daughter over the internet! That I searched to see what kind of price I could get for her. I hope they will take my computer as evidence! This goes beyond lying. I believe this crosses over several custody battle boundaries. I wasn't going to get so personal but my total disbelief has forced me to read this in black and white in order to process such information. The worst of many untruths from one man. I don't even know what to think of such an outlandish tactic. I'm thinking mainly desperation or pure insanity.
yes they can check your pc,
are you guilty
stay away from pawn
porn, 😳😳
Originally posted by mokkoYour ex is lying about you in court? It's your lawyer's job to catch him in a lie, thus showing he's a liar. In this situation it's the lawyer who knows how to deal with this guy, not us.
No I'm not guilty! It's way more outragous than porn. I am in utter shock right now after reading a sworn statement by my ex that I tried selling our daughter over the internet! That I searched to see what kind of price I could get for her. I hope they will take my computer as evidence! This goes beyond lying. I believe this crosses over several custody batt ...[text shortened]... w what to think of such an outlandish tactic. I'm thinking mainly desperation or pure insanity.
Originally posted by AThousandYoungIt's more just the rage it induces to have to listen to someone elses lies. When you both know darn well that they're lies. It makes you want to rip a persons eyelids off. Why can't people just speak the truth. What is it that drives people to resort to lying? I don't understand the thought process attached to it. And ya, I'm hoping I do have a good lawyer but I'm not banking on legal aid. Just wanted to know if a comp can be used as evidence is all.
Your ex is lying about you in court? It's your lawyer's job to catch him in a lie, thus showing he's a liar. In this situation it's the lawyer who knows how to deal with this guy, not us.
I've known alot of liars and for the most part they're bearable lies. Such as " No, of course that doesn't make your bum look big."
I'm beggining to believe lying should be punishable by removal of the tongue. Liars suck!
Originally posted by flexmoreThanks,
there are many ways you can deal with a liar ... the choice you make is not very important ... their lies are only a temporary/deflating issue for you ... just remember that this is their issue and not yours.
the choice the liar makes is very important ... their lies will follow them around ... and inflate ... their most loved friends and family will eas ...[text shortened]... back ... the liar must take some very serious action .. or face some very serious consequences.
I really needed to hear that. Hopefully this proves to be true. 🙂
Stay calm... It's not true, unless they could prove it otherwise and this is impossible, if you didn't do it, right? 🙂 You should start to lead the game now and ask your ex to show some evidence. And may your lawer do a good job & catch your ex lying. Liers in court usually get caught in their own trap. 😉
Originally posted by borshikain court this will be the situation and this is what the lawyer will do ... THE LAWYER WILL DO THIS ... the lawyer will fight your ex with facts.
Stay calm... It's not true, unless they could prove it otherwise and this is impossible, if you didn't do it, right? 🙂 You should start to lead the game now and ask your ex to show some evidence. And may your lawer do a good job & catch your ex lying. Liers in court usually get caught in their own trap. 😉
before it gets to court: evidence and facts are not so important ... emotions are important ... the lawyer can not deal with emotions ... facts wil not deal with emotions.
emotions are VERY important in these situations.
recognise her disturbance --- the sale of her daughter is an horrendous concept.
be it a nightmare or something with video evidence - either way - the concept is disgusting and the most disastrous imaginable.
i think of it a bit like this: she is hypothesising ... does he still care about my daughter and want the best for her? can he find the best moral truth in a situation? he left me .. he is an idiot ... i will try him out ... will he tell me that our daughter should never ever be sold?
by recognising the (natural and justifiable) emotions the issues may well disappear like magic!
Originally posted by mokkotruth is only a perspective.
How the heck does anyone function in this world when dealing with chronic liars. Not only chronic liars in the harmless sort of white lie type either. I mean viscous, life altering absolutely outragous lies! I'm at my wits end in dealing with someone elses out right lies. The worst part is I have no choice but to listen to these evil words of twisted dementia ...[text shortened]... prevail or do liars actually get anywhere in life with their complete and total BS all the time?
Originally posted by Wajomathere is an ideal called truth, a dream - that "god" may be able to see.
truth is an absolute, it's either true or not.
but more importantly there are many different views of each situation.
each of these views believes their own direct evidence ...
their are many relative truths.
often these views are just that: views.
truth is rarely absolute.