Originally posted by CoconutIf they loved you they wouldn't go to someone else for fulfilment.
That being said, I will answer your question. I'd rather the person love me and fulfill any sexual needs I can't with someone else than have the person be rude, secretive, suspicious, and downright insensitive.
Originally posted by rhbmaybe. I think someone could love me and not have respect for the relationship. It's a selfish love, if there is such a thing. Like I said though, it is not close to being good and nobody should have to face it.
If they loved you they wouldn't go to someone else for fulfilment.
Originally posted by CoconutHave you been skipping bible study lately?
maybe. I think someone could love me and not have respect for the relationship. It's a selfish love, if there is such a thing. Like I said though, it is not close to being good and nobody should have to face it.
1 Corinthians 13:1-13
If I speak in the tongues of men and angels,
but have not love,
I have become sounding brass or a tinkling symbol.
And if I have prophecy and know all mysteries and all knowledge,
and if I have all faith so as to remove mountains,
but have not love, I am nothing.
And if I dole out all my goods, and
if I deliver my body that I may boast
but have not love, nothing I am profited.
Love is long suffering,
love is kind,
it is not jealous,
love does not boast,
it is not inflated.
It is not discourteous,
it is not selfish,
it is not irritable,
it does not enumerate the evil.
It does not rejoice over the wrong, but rejoices in the truth
It covers all things,
it has faith for all things,
it hopes in all things,
it endures in all things.
Love never falls in ruins;
but whether prophecies, they will be abolished; or
tongues, they will cease; or
knowledge, it will be superseded.
For we know in part and we prophecy in part.
But when the perfect comes, the imperfect will be superseded.
When I was an infant,
I spoke as an infant,
I reckoned as an infant;
when I became [an adult],
I abolished the things of the infant.
For now we see through a mirror in an enigma, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I shall know as also I was fully known.
But now remains
faith, hope, love,
these three;
but the greatest of these is love.
Originally posted by rhbExactly the verse I was thinking of when I wrote that. It's not true love of course. Something like "I love Vanilla Coke" or "I love Vanilla Ice" or "I love Red Hot Pawn!"
Have you been skipping bible study lately?
1 Corinthians 13:1-13
They are nice to have around, or they give you want you want, or they offer something, or they are fun. You get it. Just not a love with your soul and heart, because that kind of love matches the verse.
Mokko, do you still have "Is it love or infatuation?" that you sent me once? That may fit, though I can't remember them all.
Originally posted by CoconutNothing kills a thread like a good, lengthy bible reading.
Exactly the verse I was thinking of when I wrote that. It's not true love of course. Something like "I love Vanilla Coke" or "I love Vanilla Ice" or "I love Red Hot Pawn!"
They are nice to have around, or they give you want you want, or they offer something, or they are fun. You get it. Just not a love with your soul and heart, because that kind of ...[text shortened]... t love or infatuation?" that you sent me once? That may fit, though I can't remember them all.
Originally posted by mokkoDo you have a good selection of dildos?
Ok, now I don't know about the rest of you but I've been going "without" for a long time now. Am I the only one who sees everything interms of the nasty these days? Good lord it's like everywhere I look I'm constantly reminded of what I'm missing out on. Mabye it's time to shave my legs!
On second thought......naw.....not worth the cost of a razor. 😛
Originally posted by TheSkipperNo, Lewis Carroll was probably not asexual. He may have been a paedophile though.
I find it interesting that so many people in this thread do not seem to understand the concept of asexuality. I must admit that when I first read that you are a 35 year old virgin I instantly assumed religious fundamentalist.
Correct me if I'm wrong but wasn't Lewis Carroll asexual?
Upon learning about asexuality (and only a little bit of learn ...[text shortened]... , do underestand (to the extent a young man who loves sex can anyway.)
Peace,
TheSkipper
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lewis_Caroll#Allegations_of_paedophilia
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Originally posted by GeraldMI'd say the sexual cheating is worse. The disrespect and insult is hidden. Disrespecting someone behind their back is much worse than doing it to their face.
I was at work trying to figure out if there were any ladies in my phonebook that might not be repulsed by the notion of going on an overnight Friday when I came to a small realization about myself; I have a very different view of relationships in general and cheating in particular. It at least seemed this way to me when I was looking at the names.
The ...[text shortened]... g is never done to an unreasonable degree), or otherwise. Maybe my relationships are just f-ed.
It's an awkward question though, as there is a serious lack of communication between the two of you and it's unclear about how she feels about things, what she's ok with and what she's doing when you're not around.