1. SubscriberVery Rusty
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    25 Mar '20 15:44
    @eladar said
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    So, no reason to get married other than you want to.

    With each generation fewer and fewer guys get married. Most who do get married do so because they think they are supposed to do it.
    It winds down to a personal choice wouldn't look at a person who is not married to be any less than a person who is married. It is a custom that has went on for many centuries as you know. There was a time you never saw a mixed race couple together now it is an everyday occurance. Times change as do people's views.

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    8.2 years is definitely until death do us part lol.

    Marriage is dying out, it does not fit societal values. As you said, values change. People adapt and marriage is dying accordingly.

    https://www.pbs.org/wgbh/third-rail/episodes/episode-7-is-marriage-dead/why-are-fewer-people-getting-married/
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    @eladar said
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    8.2 years is definitely until death do us part lol.

    Marriage is dying out, it does not fit societal values. As you said, values change. People adapt and marriage is dying accordingly.

    https://www.pbs.org/wgbh/third-rail/episodes/episode-7-is-marriage-dead/why-are-fewer-people-getting-married/
    I cetainly wan't arguing that point with you, I said it was everyone's choice. Some women still dream about their prince charming coming along. 😉

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    @very-rusty said
    I cetainly wan't arguing that point with you, I said it was everyone's choice. Some women still dream about their prince charming coming along. 😉

    -VR
    Then when she gets bored with him and finds he is not perfect, she leaves him.
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    25 Mar '20 18:02
    @eladar said
    Then when she gets bored with him and finds he is not perfect, she leaves him.
    Sounds like your are talking from experience and still hurting.

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    25 Mar '20 18:16
    @Very-Rusty

    Actually I did research on it and it is very common.
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    25 Mar '20 18:25
    @eladar said
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    Actually I did research on it and it is very common.
    Ok, we can go with that if you wish.

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    @Very-Rusty

    https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-new-resilience/201508/women-initiate-divorce-much-more-men-heres-why
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    25 Mar '20 18:35
    @eladar said
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    https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-new-resilience/201508/women-initiate-divorce-much-more-men-heres-why
    I guess the question would be do you believe everything you read on the internet?

    Was the survey large enough do you think?

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    @very-rusty said
    I guess the question would be do you believe everything you read on the internet?

    Was the survey large enough do you think?

    -VR
    Google it see how many different hits you get on the topic.
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    25 Mar '20 20:56
    @eladar said
    Google it see how many different hits you get on the topic.
    Was the survey large enough do you think?

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    @very-rusty said
    Was the survey large enough do you think?

    -VR
    Google the topic if you want to see more.

    To answer your question, yes there is enough data put there. So yes, this survey works too.

    If it is not enough for you, Google more.
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    @eladar said
    Google the topic if you want to see more.

    To answer your question, yes there is enough data put there. So yes, this survey works too.

    If it is not enough for you, Google more.
    So in who ever's opinion the reason is the womans doing 70% of the time? I don't really believe that one!

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    @very-rusty said
    So in who ever's opinion the reason is the womans doing 70% of the time? I don't really believe that one!

    -VR
    Read the article, read other articles. Get educated or hold on to uneducated beliefs.

    It is up to you.
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    25 Mar '20 22:16
    @eladar said
    Read the article, read other articles. Get educated or hold on to uneducated beliefs.

    It is up to you.
    I believe you to be very gullable if you think 70% of Divorce is the womans fault.

    I may not be the one who needs to be educated here.

    -VR
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