Originally posted by Dasa
I must say you are the most polite person I have come across in this forum to date.
The self is - the pure transcendental soul.
Eternal, indestructible, pure, full of knowledge, blissful and eternal servant/friend of God.
In this world the self has given power of attorney to the mind and the mind is guided by the intelligence.
When the mind is absor ...[text shortened]... ing us to return home back to Godhead - and never return to this world of suffering ever again..
When I was young my mother discipled herself to Maharaj Charan Singh Ji, a guru in the Sant Mat tradition, from the Radha Soami Satsang. We visited him in Beas, for darshan. My most salient memory is that her guru was very calm and kind, with a warm smile, and sat still for long periods of time. I'm sure there are very important differences between the Sant Mat tradition and your own. Although Sant Mat is a bhakti tradition emphasizing the path of devotion, and has, historically, Vaisnava roots (Kabir Sahib is revered, for instance), it also has deep roots in the Sikh tradition, and places more emphasis on living gurus than on Vedic teachings. Anyway, I'm not out to bore you with my biography. I am interested, though, in your views about the relation between the self and the Godhead. In the Sant Mat tradition, the view is that, for the typical person, the body controls the mind which controls the soul. The hope is that through simran and darshan, one can master one's bodily needs, quiet the mind, and allow the soul to spiritually advance.
I am familiar with the metaphors used to describe this advancement. What I'm curious about is how this advancement manifests itself psychologically. I mean, I am already a vegetarian. I oppose cruelty, abstain from mind altering materials, meditate often (though I should do this more). I love my friends and family. I care for and respect (as best I can) people I don't know. I don't think I am my physical body, or that I am my set of thoughts and desires; I know that I am something different from all this, or that all this is something like me through a filter that needs to be cleaned. But what I want to know is what it will feel like, internally, as I spiritually advance. How will my psychology change? Will I continue to have any desires at all? Will I still be a good friend, partner, lover?