Originally posted by scherzo
[b]Do you think it is true that husbands have the right to beat unfaithful wives, even though you choose not to exercise that right?
No. I do not.
The passage (along with the passage about the hijab) has been interpreted too literally.
I believe you are also underestimating the number of passages in the Koran that prescribe wife beating in va ...[text shortened]... nly think of one right now. There's more in the Hadith, but that's not really the word of God.
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I can only think of one right now. There's more in the Hadith, but that's not really the word of God.
There is only one—and I have seen 2 or 3 translators/commentators (including Ahmed Ali) who argue that the Arabic word used cannot be construed literally there, pointing out that it is used elsewhere in the Qur’an idiomatically (e.g., to strike out on a journey). However, I think women have been far more marginalized over time than they were, say, in the period of the Caliphate (when one woman was known to have argued, publicly, with Umar over an interpretation of the Qur’an; and Umar acknowledged that she was correct and he was wrong).
Muhammad, based on all my reading, is not known to have ever struck a woman; and he strongly disapproved of it, saying (in one hadith): “The worst among us are men who beat their wives.” [Rough quote from memory.] He is also reputed to have said to a servant-woman with whom he was angry: “If it were not for fear of Allah, I would beat you with this [cloth napkin]!”
There are Muslims who use hadith to “abrogate” passages in the Qur’an, though others think that is quite wrong: that hadith (regardless of the strength of their putative
isnad) ought to be tested against the Qur’an, and not the other way around. (A case in point: the Qur’an does not permit the death penalty for adultery, but 100 “strikes”—which some historians have said could not mar the skin, but were more in the line of a public shaming.)
The Qur’an greatly liberated women vis-a-vis their conditions and treatment in the surrounding culture—whether or not it went “far enough” is another question. Many Muslims (the majority? I don’t know), rather than continuing in
the direction of the Qur’an, have “backslid” (as it were); often, as you note, using hadith to support their (male dominated) position. That kind of thing is not confined to Islam, of course.
And Muslims should not be seen as having monolithic views on such matters. There are Muslim feminists, for example. (You might be interested in Fatima Mernissi’s book
The Veil and the Male Elite for a scholarly exploration; Mernissi is a sociologist, a Muslim, and a feminist.)