Originally posted by EladarTo understand the difference between influence and coercion, you merely need to introduce the concept of 'force.'
Only to the true believer.
Belief doesn't come into it. We can say with certainty, for example, that a good teacher should influence their pupils, not coerce them.
Originally posted by Ghost of a DukeSo if parents simply teach their children that the Bible is God's word and that truth is found in God through what is written in the Bible, a bit more complex than that but simplified for this topic, then in your view this is not coercion.
To understand the difference between influence and coercion, you merely need to introduce the concept of 'force.'
Belief doesn't come into it. We can say with certainty, for example, that a good teacher should influence their pupils, not coerce them.
Originally posted by EladarI think it's fine for parents to share their beliefs with their children and explain/teach them why they believe what they believe, but said parents should also allow their children to make their own mind up when they come of age and are exposed to new ideas.
So if parents simply teach their children that the Bible is God's word and that truth is found in God through what is written in the Bible, a bit more complex than that but simplified for this topic, then in your view this is not coercion.
A parent may plant the seed, but shouldn't force the direction of growth.
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Originally posted by Ghost of a DukeWho can stop another of deciding for oneself
I think it's fine for parents to share their beliefs with their children and explain/teach them why they believe what they believe, but said parents should also allow their children to make their own mind up when they come of age and are exposed to new ideas.
A parent may plant the seed, but shouldn't force the direction of growth.
Isn't planting a seed the same as indoctrination?
Originally posted by EladarNo, I don't think so. Even as an atheist I can see why a Christian parent would want to make their child aware of God, to teach them what they believe. 'Indoctrination' would involve more than planting the seed, it would involve restricting the growth of the young sapling as it moved into maturity, not allowing it to branch out on its own. A good parent may influence their child, provide strong roots, but it shouldn't involve coercion.
Who can stop another of deciding for oneself
Isn't planting a seed the same as indoctrination?
Originally posted by Ghost of a DukeFunny how you believe a parent can determine what a child believes.
No, I don't think so. Even as an atheist I can see why a Christian parent would want to make their child aware of God, to teach them what they believe. 'Indoctrination' would involve more than planting the seed, it would involve restricting the growth of the young sapling as it moved into maturity, not allowing it to branch out on its own. A good parent may influence their child, provide strong roots, but it shouldn't involve coercion.
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Originally posted by Ghost of a DukeRestricting growth is that like training them to be adults not over grown children?
No, I don't think so. Even as an atheist I can see why a Christian parent would want to make their child aware of God, to teach them what they believe. 'Indoctrination' would involve more than planting the seed, it would involve restricting the growth of the young sapling as it moved into maturity, not allowing it to branch out on its own. A good parent may influence their child, provide strong roots, but it shouldn't involve coercion.
Originally posted by EladarThat's what I asked you!!
How is a child supposed to achieve a state of not being influenced by others?
Do you want to go back and answer the question or are you throwing it back at me?
edit: I see Ghost and others have engaged you in this question already.
As to authority, moral or otherwise , the final decision has to come back to the individual. And that's the way you should raise kids. Giving away your authority can have disasterous consequences.