Originally posted by divegeester
This forum is like the chessboard, black and white ruthlessness but not much to do with the real people and real life.
"... not much to do with the real people and real life"? What are you talking about? Are you claiming that no one here shows any real side of themselves? Granted, many here like to project the best side of themselves to others, but I submit that it is all "real". And if one can read between the lines, many people, even those you assume to show no cracks in the armor, show they are just as "real" as anyone else. Yes, this is the "internet" and yes, it can be prudent to believe only that which has been "proven", but maybe you could take people a little more at "face value" and believe what people say until you have reason to not believe what they say. I'm just saying to apply more "Golden Rule". It always seems to be the people being the most "real" who open up that get attacked for not being "real" enough, especially by others who sit back and don't disclose anything about themselves.
Are we to assume by this statement of yours that you really don't believe what you just posted about Robbie, and only put that out there because you were asked to? That none of it is "real" anyways, and so it doesn't matter what you say here?
Clarification, my man. That's all I'm asking for. Because to me, this statement that the forum doesn't have much to do with the real people and real life to be a rather cold assessment yet perhaps not quite as true as it might be of the General Forum, for instance. I know you can easily point to your statement and claim that's why you participate in the forum warfare the way you do, but come on, man, this forum, more than most here on RHP, is FULL of "real" people with "real" lives. And to say that this forum has nothing to do with "reality" is doing them all a disservice.