I'd like to start this conversation first and foremost by emphasizing the fact that I have nothing but a sincere discussion in mind when discussing this with you. Before you continue to read my response you need to realise this. As my previous post angered you, I need you to understand this, I don't have a motiv in my posts. I have no ambition to absolve myself of all wrong doings and placing such fault on your shoulders. I would much rather have discussed this in private as our other discussions have proceeded, but as this is already public and in a previous example you preferred to use a public forum as means of rebuke, we can keep it here. Please however keep in mind that I do not support a public rebuke of another Christian. As such this post is in no way an attempt at rebuking you or passing blaim.
If bbarr won't listen to ivanhoe, then neither of these follows:
a) Christians are entitled to curse or insult bbarr.
b) No other Christian is permitted to hold conversations with bbarr.
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I agree with this view. I do not believe nor endorse any of these actions on someone that chooses not to listen to another Christian. I've yet to insult any person's that say to me "I just don't believe pcaspian, sorry".
These are the seeds of Inquisition. We are to defend our faith, as our brother Peter made very clear, with gentleness and respect. You insist on making me out to be against defending our faith. You misrepresent me. I am not against defending our faith. I am against doing so in a way which constitutes disobedience to our faith. How shall we defend it and break it at the same time?
My question has a purpose. From what I understand, you believe that , under no circumstances will a Christian be justified in protecting his faith by force. Not when a person disrupts a church service nor when a person attempts to kill you or even the person holding the church service. The only caveat is when you are protecting your family from this man. I claim otherwise. If my undestanding of your belief is incorrect, please correct me.
I believe otherwise for a number of reasons. I believe that should one be persecuted for one's faith, we should not resist, we should shine as an example of Christianity, much like the Christians persecuted by Nero did. I also believe we should be forgive and love those that persecute us, much like the Pope loves and forgave the man who attempted to take his life.
I do not however belief that when a Christian community is established, we should relinquish that establishment because the minority is out to disrupt it. Should we live in a society where a single man can murder every single Christian man because we do not retaliate ? One where an entire service is disrupted because one man bellows on a loudspeaker ?
These are my views. I mention them not to prove your view wrong, for that is in deed a view I may yet embrace, but rather to give you my point of view so you may be able to understand me.
What is at issue here, however, the thing you confronted me about in the first place, is that apparently you felt I was out of line to suggest that ivanhoe should not use obscenities and be abusive to people in the forums... But for now, it's just a red herring.
I am not suggesting this at all. I merely asked you to stand in his shoes, shoes by your own admission you have filled. Whether Ivan has done this more than anyone else here is not relevant with regard to sinning. You have done so, I certainly have done so.
Ivan drew you into this debate, I believe as an attempt to get through to BBarr. To illustrate to him that you did not post here because you were insulted by the manner God's name is blasphemed on the forums. As you have already stated you found Ivan's behaviour more disgusting than any blaspheming any non-Christian has done at this site, he was clearly wrong. I may be partly to blaim as I have already indicated to Ivan that to be one of the reasons I would no longer stay at RHP, thus perhaps he simply assumed this to be your reasoning also.
Does it tells us to curse and insult those who won't listen to us?
No and I am not condoning such an act. I am however not referring to those that simply do not care to listen to the Gospel, but those purposefully out to disrupt us from preaching it.
I only said that we drag Christ's name through the mud (or we dishonor it, or we shame it, or we abuse it, or we disown it, whatever wording you'd prefer) when we behave in a manner (e.g., cursing, obscenity, spitefulness) contradictory to our calling. Surely you agree with this?!
Of course I agree with you. If someone cares not to hear the word of God, we are not to preach to them, nor to insult them, nor to curse them. We are to leave them alone. What you have yet to acknowledge is that non-Christians can drag God's name through the mud. Instead you place blaim on Christians. Disciples needed to aquire who was worthy and not give that which is Holy to the dogs. If you want to continue this part of the discussion in private I will understand.
Fine. Don't preach. What on earth has this got to do with me, or with Christians behaving like spiteful children and soiling the reputation of their Lord?
By that own admission Huntingbear, you were also a spitefull child. If you rebuked each of these Christians in private as the scriptures instructed, then they are to accountable for their own deeds. This public rebuke however is not in love.
You cannot find the slightest suggestion that I think myself immune to anger in anything I have posted. In fact, I will admit that right now I am angry that you continually misrepresent me and bombard me with red herrings. I am angry. But am I cursing you? Am I telling you that you look like the hindquarters of some sort of animal? Am I calling you obscene names?
You are posting in anger and you've been questioned not by someone that is trying to fool you, tease you, insult you, or belittle that which you love, but by someone that cares for both you and Ivan. Now apply that type of behaviour to someone that received spitefull, malicious, instigating posts on a daily basis because they are trying to spread the Lords message. Welcome to Ivan's life. Excuses for his behaviour, no. Understanding yes.
I don't post in anger HB. I am extremely conscious of that. If and when I did insult certain posters at RHP, it had its purpose and provided no pleasure to me. As I was very conscious of these posts I paid particular attention to my motivs, for any pleasure derived from betlitting someone would clearly be wrong. I once had a friend that insulted my now wife. He is not a Christian. I explained to him that he offended me. He pretended that I was overreacting and continued in this fashion. He would not be my friend anymore and I would not have remained calm had I simply kept my anger inside. A calculated move was to insult him in a similar way to make him understand and appreciate what it feels like to be insulted. It worked and he stopped at once. Sometimes when a friend doesn't understand that they're actually hurting you when they hit you on the arm, a punch in return can help. You may not understand this, you may not agree.
If I meet someone that doesn't care to hear about the Gospel, I treat them as I would any other. I even treat blaspheming athiests whom I work at with nothing but friendship. Other than their ignorant blaspheming, they are actually nice guys. Difference is that I will not tolerate them insulting my God, infront of me or infront of my Christian friends. Every athiest that I have met has shown me this common courtecy, for they atleast showed me this respect.
That's grace. Do you honestly think that Paul's persecution of Christians was not a sin? I will be shocked if you really think that. Paul didn't receive justice [b]ONLY because of God's grace, not because his persecution of Christians had anything to do with loving God. [/b]
If you believe that, then you would certainly have to ask why Nero and not Paul received the interjection that Paul received. Not every person is blessed with God making Himself known to them. A person searching for God will find Him. Neither Paul, not Nero deserve salvation, yet God chose one and not the other for a reason.
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