25 May '19 07:38>
@lemon-lime saidI agree.
"one should not do the same in kind"
In principle I agree. However, I've found that the most effective way to stop someone from (literally) tossing cold water in your face is to return the favor. No matter how well and respectful some have tried to be with her she invariably ends up (figuratively) tossing cold water in their face.
She's in control of and responsible for her own actions, and if this is how she wants to play then so be it.
In most conversations, I can "turn the other cheek" to insult.
But, concerning Duchess64, I've run out of them and now prefer to turn my azz.