Originally posted by Bad wolfThere's nothing wrong with that, BW. But it does sound an awful lot like you might be working your way towards having sex with this young lady. If that is the case, then you'll both be much better off doing it in a planned manner when you are both sober, than having it "just happen" when you are both stumbling drunk. The sex will be a lot better--and you'll both be able to remember it (and because the sex will be better you'll both be a lot more likely to remember it fondly, LOL). And even more importantly you'll be a lot more likely use condoms and avoid trouble.
Ha, maybe...I'm not the type to go shagging girls so quickly though. 😕
Originally posted by leisurelyslothI wonder if that observation can possibly mean anything when your still a teenager? I mean, us older people have done the 'shag everything you can while drunk' part, and also the 'do it sober', and we know from experience how it turns out in the end. but when you're 20, you just don't have the perspective yet.
There's nothing wrong with that, BW. But it does sound an awful lot like you might be working your way towards having sex with this young lady. If that is the case, then you'll both be much better off doing it in a planned manner when you are both sober, than having it "just happen" when you are both stumbling drunk. The sex will be a lot better--a ...[text shortened]... L). And even more importantly you'll be a lot more likely use condoms and avoid trouble.
which is why my advice would be: when you're young, hook up as much as you can. drunken, sober, standing on your head, it doesn't matter. after you get fed up with it, you'll be ready to appreciate the finer things in life, like a lasting relationship and better sex. and this goes for both guys & gals.
Originally posted by Gary ThomasOr she's just naive and/or doesn't know how much alcohol she tolerates.
(I hit da wrong button, maybe I'm drunk) I wasn't finished! As I said, If she's made NO arrangements to safeguard herself then she is asking to be "taken advantage of" She simply wants an excuse the next morning for why she did it!!!
Originally posted by NordlysI was assuming any woman who habituates a "pub scene" is neither naive, nor ignorant of her limits! For whatever reason she das decided ON THIS OCCASION to leave herself vulnerable to anyone who wants her and that she's willing to go with! Her drunken state is HER excuse for her actions to herself and her friends!
Or she's just naive and/or doesn't know how much alcohol she tolerates.
Originally posted by Gary ThomasI thought we were talking about girls, not women here, and not about a girl taking action herself, but a girl being taken advantage of. If we are talking about an adult, then I agree that she should know better.
I was assuming any woman who habituates a "pub scene" is neither naive, nor ignorant of her limits! For whatever reason she das decided ON THIS OCCASION to leave herself vulnerable to anyone who wants her and that she's willing to go with! Her drunken state is HER excuse for her actions to herself and her friends!
Originally posted by NordlysWhen do they change from girls to women noodles?
I thought we were talking about girls, not women here, and not about a girl taking action herself, but a girl being taken advantage of. If we are talking about an adult, then I agree that she should know better.
I know many females in their mid-thirties who are still silly little girls, whilst conversely, I know several lasses in their late teens with securely wired heads on their shoulders.
Originally posted by Gary ThomasThat sounds more like a rapists' self-justification : "she was asking for it".
I was assuming any woman who habituates a "pub scene" is neither naive, nor ignorant of her limits! For whatever reason she das decided ON THIS OCCASION to leave herself vulnerable to anyone who wants her and that she's willing to go with! Her drunken state is HER excuse for her actions to herself and her friends!
Can't girls/women go out to the pub and be flirty and drunk...just like men...?
Sure there are "slappers" out there who do seek a quickie in the alley at the end of the evening... but a slapper is a slapper, and not all girls are slappers.
Originally posted by Gary ThomasNordlys is right. It's 17 - 19 year old age range being discussed and many are still learning their alcohol tolerance rate when out in pubs. I should imagine the fact that she was out drinking with Wolfie and other friends in a group that evening is the safeguard she used for getting home ok. And quite rightly, as many of have said, Wolfie was a gentleman and didn't take advantage of the situation.
(I hit da wrong button, maybe I'm drunk) I wasn't finished! As I said, If she's made NO arrangements to safeguard herself then she is asking to be "taken advantage of" She simply wants an excuse the next morning for why she did it!!!
Although, no matter what age or alcohol tolerance a woman (or man for that matter) she should have the right to walk home from an evening out without any fear.
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Originally posted by Gary ThomasI have to agree with Zadadka. "She was asking for it" is the words of the lowest form of life, and you should rethink your philosophy big time. She is maybe leaving herself open to be taken advantage of, or abuse....but "asking for it " ??????
AMEN!! A girl who gos to a bar (Pub) and gets drunk without making arrangements to be taken care of by a trusted friend (WHILE SHE'S STILL SOBER!!!) IS asking TO GET LAID!
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Originally posted by huckleberryhoundWhat if she actually did ask for it when drunk though? 😕
I have to agree with Zadadka. "She was asking for it" is the words of the lowest form of life, and you should rethink your philosophy big time. She is maybe leaving herself open to be taken advantage of, or abuse....but "asking for it " ??????
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Originally posted by Gary ThomasSo if you get a drunk and a gay bloke takes you home and does you that's ok as well is it? I mean you should have got a hetro freind to make sure that you got home safely!!!
AMEN!! A girl who gos to a bar (Pub) and gets drunk without making arrangements to be taken care of by a trusted friend (WHILE SHE'S STILL SOBER!!!) IS asking TO GET LAID!
Just because a woman is drunk does not give anyone the right to take advantage of her and I must add that it is now an imprisonable offense should you do so.
As a father of two daughters I must say that some of the comments on here are quite disturbing and emphasize the total lack of morals which seems to be festering in society.
It seems that the days when someone in trouble could rely on the help of strangers are long gone.